Hello, I found out today about rebooting and porn induced erectile dysfunction. From what I've read I feel like this could be my case but maybe there is somebody here that knows more about the topic and can say something about this.
So here's a little background: I've never been going on dates until last year because while knowing that I was gay(only had an erection thinking of guys or watching guys on porn) I wasn't accepting it.
So last year I started to go on dates, not many, until recently. I've found this guy who I really like, told him about my situation and was cool with it. He said he would wait until I was ready to do something.
So after 3 dates I was feeling good with him, we had been kissing (which often caused an hard on to myself) and I told him that on the next date I was ready. We managed to be alone in his room for all the evening and started watching a movie. I wasn't really worried about the first time, we were only going to jerk off and have a blow job and I really felt comfortable with him, didn't have fears. Also because the night before I jerked off in order to don't cum early.
So we lay down, watch the movie, kiss and I was having an erection. Than we got naked and started kissing jerking off. After a while I started giving him blowjob and than he started giving one to me. I wasn't hard at that point and my erection got down and I stayed soft. It was awkward and we didn't speak a lot but than hugged and said it was no problem.
Next time I was feeling a bit worried that it would happen again but stayed without jerking myself for about 1 week. We kissed, I got an hard on but as as soon as we got naked I was soft. I only managed to get a little hard if I was giving him a blow job and jerking myself.
Now he said it's starting to be a problem and that he wants to help me solve it, because he really likes me.
I really like him in every way, I find him really attractive but I didn't understand why I couldn't get hard as soon as we get naked.
Now, after reading about prone induced ED, thinking back I realize that I stroked way faster than he did to me. I've also read that you should be able to have an hardon without looking at prone or thinking about sexual stuff, just stroking it, and I'm not able to do that, I need something. It's not like I used to watch porn and jerk off a lot (about 3 times a week) but maybe I got used to it and am unable to get as excited while being with someone, could this be the case? Thanks for your attention.
So here's a little background: I've never been going on dates until last year because while knowing that I was gay(only had an erection thinking of guys or watching guys on porn) I wasn't accepting it.
So last year I started to go on dates, not many, until recently. I've found this guy who I really like, told him about my situation and was cool with it. He said he would wait until I was ready to do something.
So after 3 dates I was feeling good with him, we had been kissing (which often caused an hard on to myself) and I told him that on the next date I was ready. We managed to be alone in his room for all the evening and started watching a movie. I wasn't really worried about the first time, we were only going to jerk off and have a blow job and I really felt comfortable with him, didn't have fears. Also because the night before I jerked off in order to don't cum early.
So we lay down, watch the movie, kiss and I was having an erection. Than we got naked and started kissing jerking off. After a while I started giving him blowjob and than he started giving one to me. I wasn't hard at that point and my erection got down and I stayed soft. It was awkward and we didn't speak a lot but than hugged and said it was no problem.
Next time I was feeling a bit worried that it would happen again but stayed without jerking myself for about 1 week. We kissed, I got an hard on but as as soon as we got naked I was soft. I only managed to get a little hard if I was giving him a blow job and jerking myself.
Now he said it's starting to be a problem and that he wants to help me solve it, because he really likes me.
I really like him in every way, I find him really attractive but I didn't understand why I couldn't get hard as soon as we get naked.
Now, after reading about prone induced ED, thinking back I realize that I stroked way faster than he did to me. I've also read that you should be able to have an hardon without looking at prone or thinking about sexual stuff, just stroking it, and I'm not able to do that, I need something. It's not like I used to watch porn and jerk off a lot (about 3 times a week) but maybe I got used to it and am unable to get as excited while being with someone, could this be the case? Thanks for your attention.
