Recent content by GBS

We have got your back @Ezel . That is the case forevermore.

Mate, I don’t know if it helps but I totally understand your frame of mind when you say to yourself “I almost don’t care”. It’s the tipping point where the frontal cortex of the brain is being swept aside by the reptilian lower brain (or so I understand), and recognising that moment as you did...

781 days sober 8 days no MO Hey, big J….glad you’re still around. The above is erudite indeed. Human beings want period. Addicts train themselves to want more and be selfish about it, like children (as you say). Waking up from that reality is just one step in the process. Wake up, realise...

How are you getting along, @Ezel ?

779 days sober 6 days no MO Things ok here. Just a bit nothing happening. Someone at SAA meeting last night was saying how he has been coming to meetings (first time at our place) for two years, but he can’t stop watching porn. The longest he’s managed in 2 years is less than a week. I didn’t...

What you said above @Percival about one’s partner not being as sexy as she was, but she’s still the one for you really…..that’s it…right there. She loves you and wants you. The woman on the screen doesn’t know you exist, and (certainly in my case) if she did know me would not be very interested...

Hello again Prommers. I read all yours above. Sadly I don’t have time to say more, but the quoted bit stood out to me. Being satisfied with your partner and no one else I think is tricky but probably essential. The so called Coolidge effect (men hard wired to want and need multiple partners)...

Ah Prommers (aka @PrometheusUnbound ) - so nice you’re back in the fold. We missed you (and others) a great deal. Thanks for your input. …and on this point: I don’t know what obsessive is anymore. But I have slightly stopped being obsessed with worrying about it. And I think you’re correct...

778 days sober 5 days no MO It’s a sad fact but true that sobriety is something I work on literally every day. We sex addicts have different brands of addiction but I would be surprised if it wasn’t true that we all have very active fantasy lives. Mine has decreased substantially but I...

777 days sober - now that’s a Boeing! 4 days no MO All good here, just carrying on being patient.

3 weeks no Fap is awesome work. Keep going @Brandenburg

776 days free from all that crap 3 days no MO Our best ever naked touching session yesterday. Still nothing at all sexual but much clinching and binding together. The oxytocin flowed. Hope springs eternal.

774 days sober 1 day no MO Strong sexual dream last night. Can’t give the deats because I know where that leads. Wife was centre of dream. Well done brain.

Keep remembering that you wrote this. It’s platinum advice to yourself and to us all. You inspire.

Good numbers, mate, good numbers.