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    Let Go of a Fetish or Fantasy

    Do you often confuse: - Sex, with love? -A playful sexual attraction to clothes or a scenario, vs the ?must? and seriousness of a specific fetish? -Fetish & fantasy verses a real connection with yourself and a woman? Firstly you need to rethink and reframe the pull of desire for sex and...
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    PIED GONE, ADDICTION AND FANTASY ALMOST NIL... AFTER 35 YEARS

    BEFORE[?IMG] I have suffered so much in my life, for over 3 decades of dysfunctional relationships, a stressed/dead marriage with lousy sex(mostly cause of me) ED, porn addiction and sex addiction. Intermixed with all that is anxiety and often panic and lots of anger and blame. My path is...
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    Let Go of a Fetish PART THREE

    10) Desire vs Dependency Nobody can make that discernment other than you. Even if you never act out...and never touch anyone...I still maintain that if you are stuck on something, anything (a fetish or a constant fear of germs or anger etc) in the mind, then you are limiting yourself and your...
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    Let Go Of a Fetish PART TWO

    8 MORE PRINCIPLES BELOW TO HELP LET GO OF FANTASY, PORN OR FETISH 2) Are you just human? Question- Can I let go or change without cultivating spirituality? Tough. We identify with our thoughts and beliefs and this is our first problem and we do not wish to let them go for fear of losing...
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    Porn is under control after a lifetime of it...but femdom fantasy... an issue

    This is my first post!  Ever.    I think its time to help out and give back based on my struggles and what I now know. I am a 49 year old, married with 3 kids(one disabled).  I have been watching porn since I was 16 in whatever form I could get.  I could bore you with the details of where all...
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