Ejaculating too faster than when I was porn addicted

[JackTheNewOne]

Do you guys feel it too?
I'm reading about and doing kegels and reverse kegels for have a better control over it, but my "start and stop" training show little result. I can't last more than a minute with masturbation. I'm worried about how it will be with a real woman.

I would rather have delayed ejaculation than it...

 

[willtochange]

you probably are using death grip which adds way more pressure than a vagina would so it feels better resulting in a faster finish.

 

[JackTheNewOne]

you probably are using death grip which adds way more pressure than a vagina would so it feels better resulting in a faster finish.

hmm... I will pay attention to it next time. Maybe I'm so used to it that I don't realise I'm adding too much pressure...

 

[lumosmaxima]

dude dont masturbate at all, especially not as a 'trainong' for sex which is what basically got all of us into this in the first place. let your brain amd body rewire naturally and dont try to fix problems you dont even have yet

 

[UselessMeat]

dude dont masturbate at all, especially not as a 'trainong' for sex which is what basically got all of us into this in the first place. let your brain amd body rewire naturally and dont try to fix problems you dont even have yet

This. You apparently missed the point because you're still masturbating.

 

[RobertWalker]

Thanks to make the forum on such kind of health issues. I like to read.

 

[lookingforafix]

The same thing happens to heroin addicts going through withdrawal.  Gping through withdrawal is like going to "opposite land" of porn addiction. Delayed ejaculation turns into pe. Libido turns into flatline ect. The heroin example is good because its a super dopamine drug and it also causes raises in prolactin and changes the HPA.

If your search heroin and premature ejaculation you will see lots of experiences... this should level out in 6 months or more.

Your brain is out of balance like a see saw. Going from one end to the other ...it takes time .. to get it back to balance (homeostasis)

 

[JackTheNewOne]

dude dont masturbate at all, especially not as a 'trainong' for sex which is what basically got all of us into this in the first place. let your brain amd body rewire naturally and dont try to fix problems you dont even have yet

You're right... since I noticed my erections coming back I started to do these "trainings" and since then I can't get more than 5 days without ejaculating... I guess my brain just found a new way to trick me.
I'll really work harder to not fall into this mistake again. Thanks.

 

[JackTheNewOne]

The same thing happens to heroin addicts going through withdrawal.  Gping through withdrawal is like going to "opposite land" of porn addiction. Delayed ejaculation turns into pe. Libido turns into flatline ect. The heroin example is good because its a super dopamine drug and it also causes raises in prolactin and changes the HPA.

If your search heroin and premature ejaculation you will see lots of experiences... this should level out in 6 months or more.

Your brain is out of balance like a see saw. Going from one end to the other ...it takes time .. to get it back to balance (homeostasis)

Yeah before starting reboot I could masturbate for hours, I had to force my body to ejaculate contracting the muscles of my pelvis area. And now I'm on the complete oposite. I have to do what they call reverse kegel to be able to last longer (in this exercise, instead of contracting the muscles, you have to try to "expand" them).

Well I decided to give it a time and I'll not test my sexual stamina for a while, maybe in a month or so I'll try checking it again...

 

[secret_100]

This is going to be long reply but pls bear with me till the end

It looks like it's too much stress/anxiety/confusion/worrying...Also it may be that you are masturbating but feeling guilty of masturbation that takes away the focus of enjoying the act...and the pleasure becomes pain...

Medication: I found so much improvement after taking the milk of banyan tree POWDER FORM 1/2 SPOON (LIQUID 10-15 drops)  every day in the early morning with sugar...but the relapse set me back....search on google banyan tree milk, badh ka doodh, bargad...before the medication whenever i eat red meat i got nightfall/wet dream...after one week of medication i stopped getting nightfall, and in one my relapse when i masturbated i enjoyed the masturbation for 10-15 minutes then forcefully need to ejaculate but the continuous jerking off set me back again...this milk also found in powder form which i bought for Rs. 20 only

In my case i also feel i was better before reboot than now...I admitting the fact that before reboot i came withing 5 min but i was enjoying the act...but after starting reboot i associated sexual pleasure with pain...now whenever i think of sex i fear, feeling guilt instead of enjoying masturbation...and the last thing is now i am also not getting the any pleasure watching porn...And in guilt i can't enjoy the porn/mast. but addiction triggers to still do it which results in masturbating to death grip, which caused my penis to bent and a nerve is clearing appearing on top of my penis..

I am confused and fearing....

And FYI i was successfully stayed away from porn for almost 1.5 yrs then after that started to relapse in months.

BUT PORN IS STILL HARMFUL...I am still fighting with this anti human behavior...IN MY CASE IT IS JUST THE PROCESS OF WORRY/STRESS/ANXIETY THAT TAUGHT MY BRAIN TO FEEL PAIN INSTEAD OF PLEASURE.....PORN IS DISGUSTING AND IT MORE DANGEROUS WHEN ACCOMPANIED WITH MASTURBATION...AND THE FACT NO ONE CAN STOP MASTURBATION AFTER WATCHING THIS FILTH...