I have been on this site for over a year now. I first started battling my recovery in February of last year. In that time span I have sought help from 2 different professionals, married my amazing wife who supported me through everything, and now have a child on the way. I have learned so much about myself in this recovery process. What my triggers are, my history of depression, and anxiety, and overall lack of self esteem, and how all of it has lead to porn use. I found several new outlets besides porn. I found a passion in cooking, reading, gardening, just to name a few. I finally got to a place where I felt comfortable coming onto this site and offering my knowledge and experiences to help others. I talked about what has work for me, how hard of a battle it is to fight to keep others from relapse.
When after over a year of being relapse free, just over a month ago I found a way to access my porn again without being caught. Oh how easy it is to get to. I will not mention on this site where I was able to get access to it, but it was in a place where it shouldn't be. For a month I lied to myself, my therapist and my wife. Today I came clean with my wife, and myself, and this board. I feel like a total hypocrite. But I will live by the advise that I have given others that have relapsed. It is not starting over. I have not wasted the last year of recovery. I replaced and made a huge mistake. I will learn from this, move forward, and continue to fight this battle.
When after over a year of being relapse free, just over a month ago I found a way to access my porn again without being caught. Oh how easy it is to get to. I will not mention on this site where I was able to get access to it, but it was in a place where it shouldn't be. For a month I lied to myself, my therapist and my wife. Today I came clean with my wife, and myself, and this board. I feel like a total hypocrite. But I will live by the advise that I have given others that have relapsed. It is not starting over. I have not wasted the last year of recovery. I replaced and made a huge mistake. I will learn from this, move forward, and continue to fight this battle.