Shemale porn

[Zenreboot]

Hello guys as we know lately shemale porn category has become utterly popular among straight men! Rebooters report that it is insanely hard to get rid of that fetish! Let's discuss what's the reason of shemale porn attraction and why is it so hard to recover from it? Do you think it is connected with one's sexuality? Let's mention tips to overcome that addiction.

 

[willtochange]

I do think this genre is becoming more readily available and also thing it appeals more to those who have been in this addiciton for so long that it's that new hit of dopamine that we are attracted to. The new shock and surprise, could it be something to do with someones sexuality? Sure but it could also very much be from again the progression of the addiction. I have not tips other than stopping viewing porn in general.

 

[Zenreboot]

Yes but here is the thing - some guys who are addicted to shemale porn don't go beyond it. They are disgusted by gay porn or other extreme categories. If there is a novelty thing as we state then why aren't they interested in gay porn or other new categories for them why are they disgust with it and pnly shemales are attractive. Even if they are watching shemale porn 2-4 years they never get tired from it.

 

[DonLorenzo]

I think bondage fetish is similiar, it can be verh extreme and that means more arousal. And that fetish is also hard to get rid of. Many reports say that bondage is the most common sexual fantasy. So there has to be something in it that intrests people very very much.

 

[Hablablos]

Here is what I think. Woman's body is far more appealing to us than man's body. So when you put together female and shemale, you have two appealing bodies which can experience same sexual acts as a man and woman. That makes it so popular and so dangerous.

When you speak about it, this category has a potencial to start to doubt our own sexuality because of it's appealing form. Long time ago I heard a good statement: "When you wake up, the first gender you want to kiss defines who you love." I can't guarantee how true this statement is, but I like it. For me it were always women and my doubts about my sexuality were results of too much porn.

 

[Zenreboot]

Some of these porn actresses look like 100% hot women except from one additional body part. It is also stated that gay man are not attracted to shemale porn because they are considered more feminine than musculine. Maybe that's the answer - there is popular theory that sexual orientation is not defined by which genital turns you on but the whole aspect of person. For example would a straight guy be attracted to biological woman who transgendered into a man but left vagina? My answer is no!

 

[Pisces21]

The interesting thing about this category for me is the fact that, I never, not once, even came into contact with this category on porn sites. The first and only escalation away from straight genres was gay porn. Thus, this has been the most significant source of HOCD for me. Especially having habituated myself to jacking off to it ( and other straighter genres) since around middle school prior to having developed a real sex life.

One of my friends who escalated to shemale and gay porn said that if I saw it, Id probably like it... good thing I never found it but the gay porn is even harder to shake. Although he says this, the idea of shemale porn just sounds repulsive to me and almost nightmarish (chicks with dicks? lol) and of course this has made me spike in anxiety with my HOCD because its been said that gay men dont like shemales... but I do like females and since about 6 yo have been initially aroused by them and thus have considered myself straight even with the gay porn

I think like with my and my gay porn is just realizing the point when you realized you found the new genre 'shocking'...that point of no return from 'this is disgusting' to 'wait, im actually starting to find this kinda hot..'... if you can remember that point, then you can know that is not your true self and it has always been more about being shocked and getting that high than true orientation

 

[JKLIVIN]

This was a category of porn that I allowed myself to get sucked into, first before I knew I was an addict, and it came back while relapsing. I've been thinking about this topic since I read it yesterday. I've come up with two possible scenarios.

1) We always talk about the dopamine rush. When one thing is no longer enough we dive into more an more extreme material. Therefore when straight porn is no longer enough, you find the next extreme. I can see this in my viewing behavior. I'd often start of with straight porn, and has I got further an further into addiction or in relapse I'd find myself branching out more, seeking shemale porn. It was the next rush.

2) This concept hit me today. I believe it rings true a little in my life, but maybe not necessarily everyone. I had patches in my life where I questioned my sexuality. I was always in the "friend zone" with girls. I went a long period without a girlfriend, and started to question myself. But it was always a struggle to admit to this possible attraction to the same sex. In my mind I was a man, I'm supposed to like women. Turning to shemale porn seemed to work as an excuse. I was able to satisfy my curiosity, but could hide behind the fact the they looked like women. They dressed like women, had long hair like women, had breasts like a women. It was a way to justify my own viewing of it. Telling myself "I'm not gay, because they look like women." But ones sexuality doesn't have to be a black and white decision

It took a lot of thinking and eventually coming to terms with my own sexuality to consider scenario two as a possibility. I think this scenario may be true for a lot of men that don't realize it, or don't want to admit to it because they too may be at a struggle with their own sexuality. And yes, I am straight, married, and have a kid on the way. Not that that matters, but we all can have a slight attraction to men, and not be "gay". Outside of admitting to addiction it may be one of the hardest situations for a man to admit to.

 

[NwaltRed]

We did this discussion on ybr recently, can't remember the topic name
I remember this video proved to be interesting on the topic of male attraction to shemales: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE

 

[Zenreboot]

We live in a century where there are increasing numbers of transsexual women and straight men are more and more attracted to them. What if sooner or later they will be admited as third gender and relationship with them won't be a taboo? What if this is not only a porn addiction?

 

[NwaltRed]

It wasn't a porn induced fetish for me. I went a month without porn with no reduction in attraction to feminine shemales, all the while other fetishes that I didn't want in my life faded away.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy vaginas but I also enjoy chicks with dicks. That's not an excuse for porn though, most of the shemales in mainstream porn are dudes with boobs not chicks with dicks.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YU6izjo9Lps

 

[Zenreboot]

Imho month is short period of time to get rid of shemale porn fetish because it's too hard to get rid of amd requires more time and concentration.

 

[NwaltRed]

It can stay or go, seeing as I don't watch much porn these days and my opportunities to interact with feminine shemales in real life are limited.

It isn't something that bothers me, anymore than a foot fetish.
You have to realize that minor fetishes like that don't even hold a candle to some of the sick shit I was watching at the peak of my addiction.

 

[willtochange]

This was a category of porn that I allowed myself to get sucked into, first before I knew I was an addict, and it came back while relapsing. I've been thinking about this topic since I read it yesterday. I've come up with two possible scenarios.

1) We always talk about the dopamine rush. When one thing is no longer enough we dive into more an more extreme material. Therefore when straight porn is no longer enough, you find the next extreme. I can see this in my viewing behavior. I'd often start of with straight porn, and has I got further an further into addiction or in relapse I'd find myself branching out more, seeking shemale porn. It was the next rush.

2) This concept hit me today. I believe it rings true a little in my life, but maybe not necessarily everyone. I had patches in my life where I questioned my sexuality. I was always in the "friend zone" with girls. I went a long period without a girlfriend, and started to question myself. But it was always a struggle to admit to this possible attraction to the same sex. In my mind I was a man, I'm supposed to like women. Turning to shemale porn seemed to work as an excuse. I was able to satisfy my curiosity, but could hide behind the fact the they looked like women. They dressed like women, had long hair like women, had breasts like a women. It was a way to justify my own viewing of it. Telling myself "I'm not gay, because they look like women." But ones sexuality doesn't have to be a black and white decision

It took a lot of thinking and eventually coming to terms with my own sexuality to consider scenario two as a possibility. I think this scenario may be true for a lot of men that don't realize it, or don't want to admit to it because they too may be at a struggle with their own sexuality. And yes, I am straight, married, and have a kid on the way. Not that that matters, but we all can have a slight attraction to men, and not be "gay". Outside of admitting to addiction it may be one of the hardest situations for a man to admit to.

 




I totally agree with you, form this point of view.