Greetings community!~
I am fairly new here at the forums and JUST getting the idea of what & how to post questions and comments.
I am a 60 y/o male (married) that had a Looooong history of having addictive behaviors throughout my life. I can give you a typical log of my sexuality and porn use, but I find that the MORE I read over others stories, there also seems to be a core "thread" of general addictive type patterns that you would find in Drug abuse/ alcoholism/ gambling/ eating disorders/ etc
I personally believe (and its JUST my opinion) that certain people have predetermined "addictive personalities" that come out as obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors that "fuel" the addictions (which MANY overlap through the yrs and at the SAME time frame)
I have been in AA and NA groups for mega yrs (on & off) and learned much "transferrable" ideas and patterns that Ican see in my addictive behaviors (such as Porn use)
I had the WILD idea lately (quite a few times) of actually SELLING or THROWING OUT my laptop /c I got SO disgusted with myself for using it for Porn purposes. MY personal joke to people was...."PCs are only good for 2 major things- Emailing & PORN! LOL" (OK- Maybe it NOT that F---- funny! LOL)
However- it DID become an issue with my relationship with my wife AND my ED problems.
Of course- I NEVER made any connection between the two UNTIL I read the article in TIME Mag.
I have SO much more to my story from many other aspects- but I wanted to touch upon THIS area of ADDICTION in general and if others found it to be a link too.
Please contact me by PM or to this thread to discuss this topic or any others that you would like.
I want to reach out to as many people as possible to build support/ knowledge/ and friendships.
Hope to here from anyone soon...Whats YOUR ideas?
Snap309
I am fairly new here at the forums and JUST getting the idea of what & how to post questions and comments.
I am a 60 y/o male (married) that had a Looooong history of having addictive behaviors throughout my life. I can give you a typical log of my sexuality and porn use, but I find that the MORE I read over others stories, there also seems to be a core "thread" of general addictive type patterns that you would find in Drug abuse/ alcoholism/ gambling/ eating disorders/ etc
I personally believe (and its JUST my opinion) that certain people have predetermined "addictive personalities" that come out as obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors that "fuel" the addictions (which MANY overlap through the yrs and at the SAME time frame)
I have been in AA and NA groups for mega yrs (on & off) and learned much "transferrable" ideas and patterns that Ican see in my addictive behaviors (such as Porn use)
I had the WILD idea lately (quite a few times) of actually SELLING or THROWING OUT my laptop /c I got SO disgusted with myself for using it for Porn purposes. MY personal joke to people was...."PCs are only good for 2 major things- Emailing & PORN! LOL" (OK- Maybe it NOT that F---- funny! LOL)
However- it DID become an issue with my relationship with my wife AND my ED problems.
Of course- I NEVER made any connection between the two UNTIL I read the article in TIME Mag.
I have SO much more to my story from many other aspects- but I wanted to touch upon THIS area of ADDICTION in general and if others found it to be a link too.
Please contact me by PM or to this thread to discuss this topic or any others that you would like.
I want to reach out to as many people as possible to build support/ knowledge/ and friendships.
Hope to here from anyone soon...Whats YOUR ideas?
Snap309