Change of desires

[Reboot_Dude]

When I started off a couple of months ago I didn't feel how I feel now with regards to sex and girls. I came from a position of not having had many partners, I hadn't had sex in years, had little confidence through ED issues and was comfortable going through life just satisfying myself with masturbation and porn.

Through my two months I have had a couple of slips, two orgasms I shouldn't really have indulged in and a few dirty chats with some female friends I may hook up with at some point... But I feel I have made changes all the same.

Now I crave physical contact, I want to be with real girls, I'm not happy to settle with my own hand now. Is this how people have felt  in themselves through successful reboots?

 

[E45]

This sounds pretty normal: a deep longing to spend time with other humans, especially women, even if it doesn't lead to sex.

Keep on turning your back on porn - the great rewards will come to you in the end.

 

[Deschain]

I've had a decent amount of sexual partners and 3 long term relationships. While I've always been a pleaser and my partners satisfaction is usually more important than my own I can say that I feel like I no longer want to simply "fuck" a girl. Not to say that there is anything wrong with sleeping around or empty sex but I'm craving a deep, emotional connection via sex. I want to share my body with someone and they share theirs with mine. Right now my libido and sex drive are pretty low but when I normalize I know that I'll want something special