Religious Views and Sexuality

I was looking on the success stories and there are a thread there that puts Jesus as one of the key success criteria for reaching an impressive one year PMO absence streak. So there are people feeling strongly about this.

I think it is rather clear what I think, but in the end....whatever works for you:)

A bit more on the darker side someone was quoting the bible to document how the evil porn actresses (whores) that has lured us into this would burn in hell. Such statements are clearly not ok, so much for compassion....

I feel sorry for the poor girls having to suffer in the porn industry, few if any are there by choice I guess. More than anyone they suffer from the escalating demands of the porn addicts leading to ever increased sick and painful actions. 
 

DeltaFosAware

Active Member
The Hell Fire and damnation stuff is ridiculous! I'm a Christian and we have no right to judge.
We all know equally well that even Porn gets off on this Demonic stuff and the 'sufferings' of the damned in 'Hell!'

Indeed, my sympathies are with those involved in meeting these 'demands' for those of us who use porn. They are essentially our VICTIMS and enough people exploit them already!
 

chiefmitch88

Active Member
Joseph Campbell is a favorite author of mine. He dedicated his life to the study of spirituality on a global scale and the customs that different cultures engaged in to call forth that sense of wonder we all feel when we contemplate our place in this universe. He is a brilliant man who understood the benefits that all who follow their faith with sincerity experience. I also believe that he was likely a man wary of the idea of religion as an institution that uses the exploitation of our bassist instincts (fear, guilt, shame, etc.) to govern and manipulate others. Religious persecution is well documented and it still occurs day after day in this world. Judging others based on your perception of the exterior manifestations of their internal struggle is something I think we all should be avoiding. Especially this group of self-professed "Sinners" for lack of a better word.
Whether it is Paganism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, Judaism, etc, etc, etc. All of these faiths have tenets which are interpreted by those who were lucky enough to get a genuine education. Now consider the amount of people in this world living in poverty who never had the chance to learn to read. These people rely on the words of people they trust to lead them in a positive direction. They require stories to understand the struggles occurring inside themselves. Their childhood stories, their holidays, their family gatherings, their professions of faith, their ceremonies and rituals. Sometimes these stories are bent and used malevolently by people embattled with their own internal struggle. From there, life brings us traumas, wars, destruction, hate, propaganda, fear and doubt.
All of these experiences help to shape an individuals moral compass. And the interesting things to me is when you boil down all the tenets of the major faiths you'll find that they all preach inner peace, forgiveness, compassion, empathy, humility, friendship, neighborliness. And most religions also have something that equates to the 7 deadly sins. These are usually associated with the dark forces of Satan, demons, evil spirits, or whatever else you may call them. These are the the distractions on life's path. These are the spells that exist to trap up us, walking in circles for eternity in the dark forest.
Some might say that by indulging our addiction to porn we have invited the demon of lust into our homes. And I for one believe that to be true. However, I DO NOT believe that there is some slathering, scaly creature following me night and day. I simply believe that that demon exists inside of everyone and if we choose to feed that demon it will elbow its way into our lives and eventually destroy it. Now, because I am tired of feeding it I must battle a demon that has gotten very fat and happy living comfortably inside my brain. That demon is just a voice and I'd like very much to turn it into a faint whisper so I can once again listen to the voice that is the real me. I feel it is our duty in life to identify and purge the demons that drown out that voice.
For me, raised as a Catholic, I came to understand the concept of God, His Son, the Holy Spirit, Satan, Demons, Communion, Confession...once again etc. etc. etc. These were the pieces to MY puzzle, no one elses. I explain my struggle with porn in this way because of my upbringing, teachings, and life experiences. Now someone else might explain their own struggle in a completely different manner and that is their path to choose. Far be it from me to tell other lost souls which way to go when I am still lost in the forest myself. But I feel like I have found my compass again, so I cling to that hope.
 

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DeltaFosAware

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Very well put chiefmitch88. I really take your point about the spiritual narrative of our lives. If we are Christian this forms a kind of stage on which we can and do play these narratives out!

Like you I don't go along with the physical demonology stuff and the turning of heads on bouncing beds, while projectile vomiting green slime, but I do see a truth even in that story. A truth about the struggle between good and evil. In fact I very much identify with the Priest's effort to remove that demon being like our own struggle to evict our Porn demons!

Yes, you are quite right. I too let mine in years ago and bless them they grew nice and fat and comfortable. I'd feed them up and we became close friends. Stress, failure, hopelessness, despair, not cutting it with the Women, my old Porn Whacker Buddy was there for me in the tough times! It was me, him, the monitor, the key board, hours of clicking through the pages and then a few micro-seconds from image to tissue! They must have sold me so many boxes of Kleenex the firm must have gone into orbit on the NASDAC! With with me and the seasonal flu as well!

Yet, of course what dear old Whacky Willy never did quite break to me was that I'd end up creaming in the old MIT before the first click had even half loaded. My bosom buddy never told me anything about porn induced erectile dysfunction, desiring pixels more than people, going soft on the job, being physically UNABLE to come even in full sail! Yeah, the old weed whacker really suffered in this relationship! So much so that only now, decades later, can I wake up next to my partner and feel good old woody down there 'solid as a rock' again...Not risking like 'doing anything with him' but gently touching my sleeping partner feels well HUMAN, warm, nice, comfortable, even SAFE!

Do I regret the Porn over about forty plus years? Well, in a way I have to say not! I would not recommend it to others of course but hey, if as now better stuff has grown out of it all, that's a good outcome. If it's death has led to a phased resurrection, then had it not been Porn it could have been drink, drugs, money, fame, power or a host of other addictions. In fact, it's helped me to understand addiction and sympathise with other addicts. It's meant that I don't just pass by a drunk homeless person and think 'how nasty, how did they let this happen...Urgh!' I think yeah, powerful stuff addiction, they fed their demon I can just as soon feed mine! They get a hobnail liver, I get a limp dick! Really pain in the arse this being human thing, if you ask me...Must be more to life and then I think about Christ, God, the Universe and realise YES, there IS and so far I have spent 56 years finding that 'more to life'. In fact the more I look, the more life opens up as a wonderful adventure and even death holds less fear!
 
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mtaha2015

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According to Shia Islam.
you can't shake hands with women.
but have anal sex with them.
 
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