please comment Gay male hard mode

[laalee]

Hi all i have these questions that i am hoping other Gay Men could help me with its just this i have struggled to
date have had 2 in 6 years not sure whats going on anyway considering i am in hard mode couple of questions if you can help

1. I believe reboot nation is telling me no artificial stimulation P etc

2. would i be correct to say that while in hard mode you should try and M without O to sensitize ur self( i haven't touched it for 60odd days.

3. Considering i am a gay male i believe it is hard to just date(so no sex = no dates)
4. Being a gay male it is easy to find sex anywhere, time etc
5. Being a sex Addict i can not really do annonymous.
6. Is me paying an Escort good or bad for my recovery


please help answer thanks all

 

[Spanishguy]

3. Considering i am a gay male i believe it is hard to just date(so no sex = no dates)

Hello!

I dont understand your 3rd point. I am gay and I dont date people. You date people because you need it, it does not matter your sexual orientation.

Apart from that, I think that you(and all of us here) must have clear what is our purpose and the dangers of porn. Stop masturbating, dating, looking for sex, flirting etc shouldnt be a problem unless your are addict. I think stop masturbating may be difficult, but stop dating? You can read a book, go to the gym, walk, go to the cinema or meet with some real friends. Stop dating guys for some months is a side effect which I dont consider very harmful.

Good luck