getagrip
Active Member
I am still pretty new here and am learning lots from all of you and I have tried to contributed as best I can. I wanted to pass along a constructive alternative to porn. I work nights and my usual routine was to come home, have a couple of drinks, which obviously lowered my inhibitions to view porn. Before I knew it I was looking at "soft porn" like girls on Pinterest and on dating sites. Then I would transition to real porn. What I have been doing the past few nights is after I have my first drink, I come to my PC but instead of looking at porn I come to this forum. I always get inspiration and encouragement at the exact time when I am most tempted to engage in my addiction. And I have tried to help a few folks with replies to their posts. It's a good vibe-- I feel useful and productive-- instead of the bad vibe we get from watching porn-- self-loating, disgust, guilt, etc.
Give it a try!
Give it a try!