So I don't feel very good right now because I continually struggle with my porn addiction but I thought it best to start in a crappy mood because things can only move forward from here. I spend much of last night masturbating and generally not enjoying it and yet refusing to stop. It's very confusing and disheartening and now my head hurts and I feel irritated and exhausted.
Anyhow, I am 48 and addicted to porn for my adult life. I am probably good for masturbating to online porn every 3-5 days.
Sometimes to feel better, sometimes because I am bored, sometimes to pass the time, sometimes because I realize I am alone and have an opportunity, sometimes because I'm anxious or stressed, sometimes for no apparent reason at all.
I'll start with a short list of aspirations
- Not feel guilt or shame for having this hidden aspect to my life. I clearly see it as a problem because I do such a good job of hiding it from others (at least in an explicit sense).
- Feeling good about myself and what I am bringing the those around me.
- Having a greater sense of intimacy and empathy with those around me, those I am connected with.
I'll leave it at that for now. Oh except for my commitment to rebooting.
I am making the commitment to no online porn and no masturbating for 3 months, that will get me to 24 January. I also will make the commitment to check in with this forum each day.
Thanks for all of you being here and being support. Hopefully, I'll be a support as well.
Alright. That it's for now.
Anyhow, I am 48 and addicted to porn for my adult life. I am probably good for masturbating to online porn every 3-5 days.
Sometimes to feel better, sometimes because I am bored, sometimes to pass the time, sometimes because I realize I am alone and have an opportunity, sometimes because I'm anxious or stressed, sometimes for no apparent reason at all.
I'll start with a short list of aspirations
- Not feel guilt or shame for having this hidden aspect to my life. I clearly see it as a problem because I do such a good job of hiding it from others (at least in an explicit sense).
- Feeling good about myself and what I am bringing the those around me.
- Having a greater sense of intimacy and empathy with those around me, those I am connected with.
I'll leave it at that for now. Oh except for my commitment to rebooting.
I am making the commitment to no online porn and no masturbating for 3 months, that will get me to 24 January. I also will make the commitment to check in with this forum each day.
Thanks for all of you being here and being support. Hopefully, I'll be a support as well.
Alright. That it's for now.