Damn women, sending you pictures

[Reboot_Dude]

Just a quick post, last night I got sent a picture of a girl I've been re-wiring with. It was a cleavage picture and I got quite aroused and sent her a picture back. I had been being very good and had put a stop to sexting, so I was a little disappointed, but I know I didn't initiate the exchange. I also know I shut it down straight away and told her to stop until we next see each other, so that was a pretty big victory I think. Afterwards, I deleted the picture and didn't masturbate. I was a little annoyed to be honest as she knows about my problem... but I couldn't be too pissed as I need her help! Haha, bloody women...  :

 

[Numez]

you dont really need her like that. if you think you need her, its kind of limiting belief as you can go outside and meet the woman suitable for your reboot process. if she sends you xxx pictures then she is not good rewiring partner. she is pretty bad one actually.

you can explain her one more time whats up and tell her not to send you pics like that. try to keep her if you are not willing to go outside of your zone and meet another one. if she does not respond well, you are better alone.

you are using her, just like in porn women are used. it sounds stupid but its true. when we are quitting we should also rewire that part of us to be honest with women and not used them for sex.

 

[Reboot_Dude]

Well I've actually known her for about 15 years as a friend, which is why she's appropriate as I feel totally relaxed with her and have no pressure on me. It also helps her as she's recently divorced and needs some confidence rebuilding herself. I've also only had this one picture of her, which is no different to seeing some girl in a low cut top down the street - not ideal but nothing you can do about it once you've seen it!

One of my issues is that I just haven't been with many women over my life, so any chance to spend some sexy times with one is a good thing. I actually think that is a bigger deal for me than porn, I haven't watched any porn in almost six months with zero effort required. This idea of rebooting is very different for every individual.

 

[Numez]

yes meeting new women is huge deal to me too  we need to go outside of our comfort zone on daily basis, it is also great to do during reboot 

good luck and stay focused