DonaNobisPacem
Member
Hi guys
Been struggling for 18 years (I'm 37) and am on my latest attempt to quit.
I am on day 20 but during that time I have indulged in a particular fetish (with my wife) that is very much tied into my P "likes".
A few questions for all who can relate to my situation:
1) Should I also consider giving up sex for a while and how realistic is that? Will I explode? I seem to get trembling episodes when I have not been getting any release at all.
2) If I did a long term sexual reboot, could it help me view my wife in the way that a man should view his wife? It seems that, for so long, I have viewed my wife through a pair of self centred and selfish spectacles.
Thanks in advance
Been struggling for 18 years (I'm 37) and am on my latest attempt to quit.
I am on day 20 but during that time I have indulged in a particular fetish (with my wife) that is very much tied into my P "likes".
A few questions for all who can relate to my situation:
1) Should I also consider giving up sex for a while and how realistic is that? Will I explode? I seem to get trembling episodes when I have not been getting any release at all.
2) If I did a long term sexual reboot, could it help me view my wife in the way that a man should view his wife? It seems that, for so long, I have viewed my wife through a pair of self centred and selfish spectacles.
Thanks in advance