I am not successful in relationship and I just started rebooting, so I am not really qualified to advise you. But here is my thought: instead of worrying about how and when you can recover, pick something else to focus on, like career. I really want to succeed, and now I spend most of my day working on my job, learning new stuff, preparing for the next job, and making new friends. I don't know what's going to happen in the future, how long it takes me to heal, whether I can meet the right girl. But focusing on what I can do now is the most important. Instead of spending your time and energy worry, do something for yourself, families or friends.
Good luck!