getagrip
Active Member
I am a 66-year old porn addict who came out of a messy divorce about a year and a half ago. I have E.D., quite possibly porn-induced, but it could be due to other causes. Regardless, I need to do the full reboot. It's been a long, long time since I've had any contact with a real woman and I miss having a woman around if only for occasional dating. I'm a hoping that by the time I meet someone there's a chance my E.D. will be cured. But assuming I meet a woman fairly soon, I have the following question: should I be upfront about my E.D.? I mean, not necessarily on the first date, but surveys show most new couples have sex after the third date or so. I guess I really don't have any choice but full disclosure, do I? I don't want the problem to be a surprise to her and I don't want the pressure on myself to feel like I have to perform when I'm pretty sure I can't. Most of all, I don't want her to think it's her fault, like she's not appealing or sexy. Is it reasonable to think any normal woman would have patience with me as I work through this challenge? Or better to just wait until the full 90 days are achieved?
Thanks for any thoughts or advice.
Thanks for any thoughts or advice.