I am 43 years old, I am married for the past 11 years and have been struggling with porn for probably 35 years. I haven't used porn in a few weeks, but now that I have been reading this website I have understood that by me going on YouTube and Facebook and kind of trying to see women is just as bad. I quit in July 2016 and during that time I would perv on Facebook and YouTube etc. and then finally relapse in December 2016. From then until now I would continue doing this perving on YouTube etc. Now from what I've read here I realize that I need to rewire my brain and quit it all and all, no YouTube/Facebook perving.
I have had an affair on my wife and was caught, I am really lucky that she is staying with me and working it out. I believe that the affair occurred partially because of porn. What I am unsure of is how to do this reboot while I am married, obviously I am sexually attracted to my wife, what do I do not give her any sexual attention at all during the 90 days?
How do I deal with the sexual temptation of touching my wife, even though we are not having any sex, she is not ready due to the affair
I have had an affair on my wife and was caught, I am really lucky that she is staying with me and working it out. I believe that the affair occurred partially because of porn. What I am unsure of is how to do this reboot while I am married, obviously I am sexually attracted to my wife, what do I do not give her any sexual attention at all during the 90 days?
How do I deal with the sexual temptation of touching my wife, even though we are not having any sex, she is not ready due to the affair