camus
Active Member
I feel that my addiction to porn is the biggest challenge I have in my life at the moment. When I used last it struck me that I am now at a fork in the road. I either use porn for the rest of my life or I never use porn again. There is no middle way. If I look or use, it always ends the same way. That much is guaranteed.
I couldn't sleep last night. I kept thinking 'what if I am still hopelessly addicted next year this time? Five years from now etc?' The thought terrifies me because I only have a finite amount of time as we all do. And I am spending it in the relapse cycle, when I could be doing far more rewarding things.
Every time I look at or use porn, it begins a chain reaction which I can't control. It lasts for weeks and then I manage to get a grip and remain abstinent. Then I fall into the trap again.
Today I will begin my journey to a new life. My challenge is that I have to cross a rickety bridge that is 90 days long. The bridge has dangerous places where I could easily fall. The are parts of the bridge where I may think I am safe, only to get attacked by a flying beast that seems to comes out of nowhere.
But if I manage to cross this bridge, my life will fundamentally change. My brain will be fundamentally different, and I will be finally free from porn. This will be one of the best days of my entire life because I can imagine how good I will feel about myself.
DAY ONE. NOT ONE DAY.
I couldn't sleep last night. I kept thinking 'what if I am still hopelessly addicted next year this time? Five years from now etc?' The thought terrifies me because I only have a finite amount of time as we all do. And I am spending it in the relapse cycle, when I could be doing far more rewarding things.
Every time I look at or use porn, it begins a chain reaction which I can't control. It lasts for weeks and then I manage to get a grip and remain abstinent. Then I fall into the trap again.
Today I will begin my journey to a new life. My challenge is that I have to cross a rickety bridge that is 90 days long. The bridge has dangerous places where I could easily fall. The are parts of the bridge where I may think I am safe, only to get attacked by a flying beast that seems to comes out of nowhere.
But if I manage to cross this bridge, my life will fundamentally change. My brain will be fundamentally different, and I will be finally free from porn. This will be one of the best days of my entire life because I can imagine how good I will feel about myself.
DAY ONE. NOT ONE DAY.