maybe you blaming porn too much, you will keep struggling for more years if you look at things this way. rebooting is lifestyle change, i just realized it too. i was exactly like you in terms of thinking that if i quit porn my life will blossom. i guess thats the exact reason why we struggle.i really need to reach 90 days+ so I'm not an anti social depressed kid.
They delay dating until their ED is cured or they have managed to go 100 days. But they never achieve this in the first place precisely because of this incorrect mentality. The same applies to other symptoms such as social anxiety, energy levels, motivation, etc. They try to quit porn, so that the symptoms can go away, and so they can finally live life. People are focusing on the wrong things, they are not changing the way they think. They are not changing the way they live, they are not changing the way they view sex and women. They are just trying not to masturbate, while everything else remains the same That, is called abstinence, not recovery.
it is making it harder to quit porn. for some people impossible to quit by checking tits and asses on the street every time.Do you think me thinking of sexual stuff is making the whole thing harder or is it making it easier for me because I'm somewhat meeting my sexual needs (which is what I've been convincing myself?
Stevew said:At uni (I'm going there in 4 months) it should be easy enough to get a girl (maybe not the on of my dreams but a decent one)... but again girls these days have sex within days or weeks of meeting a guy... women see sexual compatibility as very important and if you can't even get an erection...