Why do I get discouraged? It makes me sad to see all the men that bemoan their addiction. There are men on YBR that have had hundreds of thousands of views of their journal and they still struggle. Some were there 6 yrs ago when I started this journey and they are still there. Complaining about all the alphabet things. Saying maybe I can have real sex. I understand this is an addiction but if you are still on go after a number of years then you either do not want to change or need to do more than write words.
I think that is what bothers me is that men start this, and some of us pop in and say tell your wife, give resources and some of the men give those as well. Then OMG I saw a bikini got to hit the porn. And away go thoughts of wife, gf, future wives girlfriends and kids. And then start allover again.
When does self control come in? When does any sort of I have to do this kick in?
I am fortunate that my husband has worked very hard and we are able to work on our relationship. But many are not so lucky. I hate seeing porn claim lives and marriages. I wish I could make every man see the pain and havoc it causes. That it is about emotion, and their brain, not soft dick, hard dick, fast dick, slow dick, little dick, big dick (well maybe big dick if they act that way)
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I think that is what bothers me is that men start this, and some of us pop in and say tell your wife, give resources and some of the men give those as well. Then OMG I saw a bikini got to hit the porn. And away go thoughts of wife, gf, future wives girlfriends and kids. And then start allover again.
When does self control come in? When does any sort of I have to do this kick in?
I am fortunate that my husband has worked very hard and we are able to work on our relationship. But many are not so lucky. I hate seeing porn claim lives and marriages. I wish I could make every man see the pain and havoc it causes. That it is about emotion, and their brain, not soft dick, hard dick, fast dick, slow dick, little dick, big dick (well maybe big dick if they act that way)
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