differences in guys not effected?

[profapper]

ive recently talked to a friend a couple days ago and he likes to talk about strippers an stuff like that, but he sais he watches porn every day and continues to bang different girls. this seams like a common thing becouse a couple of my good friends awile back said the same thing; no negative effects from porn. it kinda seams like im the only wierdo that cant enjoy porn becouse im hypersensitive of something. this mystery has had me thinking ever since i started realizing my pied. what is the difference in guys that dont get effected by porn?

 

[HumbleRich]

They are effected, they just don't know it yet.

 

[eliterexor]

I also talk that to my close friend, he always watch porn and fap... I tell him that he can't easily find a girl if he won't stop PMO. He just laughed at me and telling me that porn can't affect your life. ( He got rejected by his crush for unknown reason but his crush had already a bf but the real thing is he is more handsome and good than his crush bf). They will noticed it but not so easily .Those people really  don't know that they are already affected because they don't have a knowledge about the effects of PMO.

 

[profapper]

but if your effected its very apparent that you have pied when with a girl just like it was with me. what about the guys that keep successfuly banging different girls an still watch?

 

[chpcbr]

Even hard drugs (including alcohol) do not turn all users/heavy users/abusers into addicts. Not all adverse effects of addictions (including this one) impact all addicts in the same way (or at all). Substance (or behavioral) use, abuse and addiction don't happen to a theoretical model in a vacuum. They happen to actual individuals with specific physiological and psychological traits in their own unique environments. To wonder why the outcome is not the same for everyone is completely pointless.

 

[Retro Gamer]

Not everyone will be affected with ED. Although I'm pretty sure that everyone will have one or another negative effect from porn use, if not physically than it will be mentally.

 

[profapper]

yes but what are the physiological traits that the immune ones have? their should be studies done on this, maybe cure pied while watching porn. :-X

 

[aquarius25]

I would also add that the man who watches "a ton of porn and can still bang chicks" is most certainly affected. He is objectifying women for sure. That language is a huge red flag. He may be able to "bang chicks" for a while but he won't be settling into a lasting relationship anytime soon. At some point he will not be as enticing to the "chicks he likes to bang" and then where will he be? He has conditioned this attitude of objectification into his daily life for so long. That sounds like a lonely future someday. Just thought I would put that perspective out there. Porn has an impact on our culture and the way we view each other. Porn allows us to see people as objects for our sexual desire instead of as people with feeling and thoughts. It is sad.

 

[Retro Gamer]

I would also add that the man who watches "a ton of porn and can still bang chicks" is most certainly affected. He is objectifying women for sure. That language is a huge red flag. He may be able to "bang chicks" for a while but he won't be settling into a lasting relationship anytime soon. At some point he will not be as enticing to the "chicks he likes to bang" and then where will he be? He has conditioned this attitude of objectification into his daily life for so long. That sounds like a lonely future someday. Just thought I would put that perspective out there. Porn has an impact on our culture and the way we view each other. Porn allows us to see people as objects for our sexual desire instead of as people with feeling and thoughts. It is sad.

Aquarius25, I agree, that is so true.

 

[profapper]

i agree, although ive also heard theories that when one bangs alot of chicks he becomes more of a "man" and is more grounded and successful in relationships. he becomes better equipped to pass the "shit tests" and gain respect from the girl, which i have not been successful at since i have very little experience. this is what kind of thing the pickup community teaches and it seams dead on. sure some of them will manipulate the girls emotionsto sleep with them, but girls are consious human beings and if they choose to be that weak minded than so be it. seeing a nude women in real life and getting intimate with her is completely different than porn, and its crazy to think that. ive recently visited a strip joint with a friend just to see what its all about and i wanted to test the status of my reboot (and thats pretty much the only easy way to do it). having a real lap dance was incredibly pleasurable and in a completely different way compared to porn! it felt so personal and porn doesent at all. and their was no overwelming surge of negative enegy like i had just dropped a toaster in the bathtub! which is how it feels now if i opened up a page full of boobs, the surge is just mind scrambling an i want to click out immediately. but i got instant wood when she touched me wich felt amazing! and we got to know each other and talked for awile too. i feel like ive successfuly rewired myself to real women from visiting that strip joint, and it didnt at all give me urges to watch porn it made me want a real women i can touch and talk to, wich for us rebooters is a huge challenge since a real women requires you have a well developed personality and self esteem wich alot of us must start from scratch building up.