MichaelSanchez
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This is my first post in my reboot diary because I hope that writing about my feelings will help me on the path to rebooting completely. I want to get off this porn so badly for three reasons. Number 1; for the sake of my sexuality. Number 2; because I have a girlfriend now who I want to be with and whom I'm completely in love with. However, the porn has so numbed my attraction to actual people that I don't want to be with anyone as of right now. Number 3; I don't want to have to be with a guy for the rest of my life but this pornography has warped my mind so much that I associate any type of image of guys with pleasure and I feel like I don't even care, all I want to feel is this thrill and that pleasure even if it is for only a few minutes. Its sickening to think about but when I get this urge, its like I become a different person.
I first attempted this reboot on Friday of last week, my third attempted reboot since May of this year. Its been a struggle ever since, on Saturday and Sunday my thoughts were absolutely nuts, my mind was inundated with images of any type of porn and muscled up guys which made my heart race faster than anything else since that is what I had escalated to and what had been giving me this thrill. Confusion has been tearing me apart since then and what I'm focused on now is killing off this sensitivity I have to any type of male imagery. Its funny because back in May when I attempted my first reboot, I had completely killed off this sensitivity and for the most part, I felt completely normal. Then, I got overconfident and I started watching videos of girls "booty dancing", completely sure that I could handle it. I then began to escalate once again and before I knew it, I had gotten back into watching straight porn and then ultimately, the gay porn once again. To make matters worse, since I had once identified as bisexual when I first escalated, albeit unwillingly, and created a dating profile on a website where I ultimately met my current girlfriend, I had used that to get pictures of guys which only fueled this addiction further.
I know the reader of this probably thinks, ''Well dang, he must be gay if he's doing all this'' but keep in mind, I had only done this AFTER I had escalated to gay porn on the misguided advice of my older sister. So what I've done is removed my profile from that site, installed a porn blocker and removed any and all traces of any pornographic material from my computer. I swear, this reboot will be the death of me because the urges, the replaying and the constant voices and thoughts of how much better I will feel after I watch porn or look up photos or read an erotic story, are making me truly question whether I am gay or not. Hell, some of these voices are even questioning whether this is truly a porn addiction or whether I'm just in denial of who I really am. I would much rather suffer be suffering from ED and physical side effects right now than these INSANE mental side effects of withdrawal. But regardless, I have to soldier through this, not just for myself but for my girlfriend whom I love and want to be with for the rest of my life. I'm sure that after I quit the porn for a few weeks, my thoughts will be returning to normal since this only began after I binged on porn for two straight weeks.
This is now my second post, I've been at this reboot now for four days, my body is craving pornographic release and my thoughts are still pretty crazy, although now they've been slowly shifting from the HOCD to just masturbation and pleasure in general. I had one little slip on Tuesday when I just couldn't resist the urge anymore and watched a video of a girl getting groped. Although it wasn't anywhere near pornographic, it was enough for me to begin edging and I've been doing that at night,, when I'm half-asleep, ever since. Now I'm completely dead-set on trying to beat this. I've also recognized from that one little video slip up how quickly and unexpected escalation happens since that one little video made me want something more and when I thought of something more in my mind, it quickly escalated and escalated until I had arrived at the ''other'' stuff I used to watch. Ain't the mind a real b**** ?. The best way I can describe how I feel right now is like a drug addict wanting a fix, every part of my body, especially my manhood, is craving it and nothing except that seems to satisfy it. From this point on, I won't let this addiction win, no more videos, no more searches, no more edging because this is now for my future. This is going to be a long four weeks.
I first attempted this reboot on Friday of last week, my third attempted reboot since May of this year. Its been a struggle ever since, on Saturday and Sunday my thoughts were absolutely nuts, my mind was inundated with images of any type of porn and muscled up guys which made my heart race faster than anything else since that is what I had escalated to and what had been giving me this thrill. Confusion has been tearing me apart since then and what I'm focused on now is killing off this sensitivity I have to any type of male imagery. Its funny because back in May when I attempted my first reboot, I had completely killed off this sensitivity and for the most part, I felt completely normal. Then, I got overconfident and I started watching videos of girls "booty dancing", completely sure that I could handle it. I then began to escalate once again and before I knew it, I had gotten back into watching straight porn and then ultimately, the gay porn once again. To make matters worse, since I had once identified as bisexual when I first escalated, albeit unwillingly, and created a dating profile on a website where I ultimately met my current girlfriend, I had used that to get pictures of guys which only fueled this addiction further.
I know the reader of this probably thinks, ''Well dang, he must be gay if he's doing all this'' but keep in mind, I had only done this AFTER I had escalated to gay porn on the misguided advice of my older sister. So what I've done is removed my profile from that site, installed a porn blocker and removed any and all traces of any pornographic material from my computer. I swear, this reboot will be the death of me because the urges, the replaying and the constant voices and thoughts of how much better I will feel after I watch porn or look up photos or read an erotic story, are making me truly question whether I am gay or not. Hell, some of these voices are even questioning whether this is truly a porn addiction or whether I'm just in denial of who I really am. I would much rather suffer be suffering from ED and physical side effects right now than these INSANE mental side effects of withdrawal. But regardless, I have to soldier through this, not just for myself but for my girlfriend whom I love and want to be with for the rest of my life. I'm sure that after I quit the porn for a few weeks, my thoughts will be returning to normal since this only began after I binged on porn for two straight weeks.
This is now my second post, I've been at this reboot now for four days, my body is craving pornographic release and my thoughts are still pretty crazy, although now they've been slowly shifting from the HOCD to just masturbation and pleasure in general. I had one little slip on Tuesday when I just couldn't resist the urge anymore and watched a video of a girl getting groped. Although it wasn't anywhere near pornographic, it was enough for me to begin edging and I've been doing that at night,, when I'm half-asleep, ever since. Now I'm completely dead-set on trying to beat this. I've also recognized from that one little video slip up how quickly and unexpected escalation happens since that one little video made me want something more and when I thought of something more in my mind, it quickly escalated and escalated until I had arrived at the ''other'' stuff I used to watch. Ain't the mind a real b**** ?. The best way I can describe how I feel right now is like a drug addict wanting a fix, every part of my body, especially my manhood, is craving it and nothing except that seems to satisfy it. From this point on, I won't let this addiction win, no more videos, no more searches, no more edging because this is now for my future. This is going to be a long four weeks.