scorpion1386 said:
Fantasizing = relapse? How so? Or does it potentially lead to a relapse? So if I imagine someone having sex or an imagine of someone sucking genitals for like 5 seconds, do I have to start over from day 1?
It's really about what you're trying to accomplish. If your goal is to completely abstain from sexualised thinking while you reboot, the yes, you'd have to reset your counter. If your goal was to only abstain from porn, you wouldn't have too. But this is splitting hairs. Ultimately, if we are honest with ourselves, we know when we are crossing the line in order to get a dopamine rush. It's when you cross your own lines that you need to reset your own counter - that's not for others to decide. But the most successful people end up forgetting about their counters at some point and just focus on staying clean and living in a healthier way. There is no rule book, just wise and unwise courses of action.