whereismoxy
Member
dear reader,
I have not been on Reboot Nation for a few years now. I am back because I am struggling to keep up the good fight. Since October 2017, it has been the most difficult struggle of my life to cleanse myself from PMO & its effects on my life. I believe journaling here can help me achieve the success that I know I am capable of.
A little background of myself, I am 26 years old. I have been depressed and socially anxious for most of my life. I'm more socially isolated than ever at the moment. I cannot muster up the courage to talk to women because I feel as though as soon as I open my mouth, they'll know, see, & feel all of my flaws and will be immediately repulsed by me, so why bother with the humiliation?
I am persistent to start my career in sales & in the entertainment industry, but have been rejected a number of times by employers in my career field. I've gained at least 40 pounds since the Fall of 2017, and since sales is all about selling yourself, I'm determined to lose weight before I start applying again, and to get my confidence back. I'm only about 8 days clean from PMO. I signed up for a gym membership on January 6th, 2018, lifting weights & starting cardio again, but, have not seen the numbers on the scale go down, only up. I'm beginning to eat healthier, and cook my own food again but, because I am so alone, there're still times I binge eat to make the pain of loneliness go away, even though I know the temporary satisfaction is extremely fleeting.
I know that I am better than this. I am a former athlete. I'm a hardworker & persevered throughout my entire adult life. I know that there are better people out in the world who are struggling more than I am, but are able to overcome their obstacles. My self-esteem is at all time low, & fear that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I feel more worthless and ugly. I am seeing a therapist to help with this, & she is aware of my addiction and has my back in trying to get rid of this shame.
I plan to write here often, and hope that this page soon becomes a place of positivity of hope & inspiration. I apologize for the sad introduction, but this is where I am right now, and do not have anyone else, besides my therapist, to talk to about this.
Thank you, & to all of your success,
rob
I have not been on Reboot Nation for a few years now. I am back because I am struggling to keep up the good fight. Since October 2017, it has been the most difficult struggle of my life to cleanse myself from PMO & its effects on my life. I believe journaling here can help me achieve the success that I know I am capable of.
A little background of myself, I am 26 years old. I have been depressed and socially anxious for most of my life. I'm more socially isolated than ever at the moment. I cannot muster up the courage to talk to women because I feel as though as soon as I open my mouth, they'll know, see, & feel all of my flaws and will be immediately repulsed by me, so why bother with the humiliation?
I am persistent to start my career in sales & in the entertainment industry, but have been rejected a number of times by employers in my career field. I've gained at least 40 pounds since the Fall of 2017, and since sales is all about selling yourself, I'm determined to lose weight before I start applying again, and to get my confidence back. I'm only about 8 days clean from PMO. I signed up for a gym membership on January 6th, 2018, lifting weights & starting cardio again, but, have not seen the numbers on the scale go down, only up. I'm beginning to eat healthier, and cook my own food again but, because I am so alone, there're still times I binge eat to make the pain of loneliness go away, even though I know the temporary satisfaction is extremely fleeting.
I know that I am better than this. I am a former athlete. I'm a hardworker & persevered throughout my entire adult life. I know that there are better people out in the world who are struggling more than I am, but are able to overcome their obstacles. My self-esteem is at all time low, & fear that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I feel more worthless and ugly. I am seeing a therapist to help with this, & she is aware of my addiction and has my back in trying to get rid of this shame.
I plan to write here often, and hope that this page soon becomes a place of positivity of hope & inspiration. I apologize for the sad introduction, but this is where I am right now, and do not have anyone else, besides my therapist, to talk to about this.
Thank you, & to all of your success,
rob