48 yo. I had the first encounter after Reboot. Any doubts!

[Alex48]

Hi. I?m 48. I had my first meeting after 5 months of reboot. I took Cialis 5 mg for safety. It worked very well.
But I noticed that it took me many minutes to get a good erection, may be 5 to 10 minutes since we started the contact. After that I have no problems.
This is normal? I realized that I got very nervous and maybe that caused this. But I would like to know if it happend because of PMO for so long, and if this slowness to achieve an erection goes away with time.
Thanks guys for read me, i accept opinions!

 

[Whynot]

Five months very good, be proud . Who was the encounter with? A Stranger?  My last reboot I went just over 200 hundred days with no orgasm and when I was with a woman I blew my load without even having an erection, I thought that was weird

 

[Deadcat]

I use the drugs out of fear but don't like them.  I recommend waiting until you don't need them. 

 

[Alex48]

Thanks for your comments Papa and Deadcat.
Papa, about what you say about ending up without erection, I've experienced that a bit while i was running. I had never experienced it. I felt a little worry because there was no erection and "i was running" hehe, so I did MO twice afther that.
I had a reboot of 3 months without PMO and in the 2 following months only MO 2 times.
The meeting was with someone I've known for years. It was good, but I still notice that the nerves are there.
Deadcat, I fully agree not to take anything to have sex. But I am afraid that the erection does not arrive and it is a failed encounter. It is difficult to know if one is ready. Not being in a couple is not possible to test it. This issue I do not know very well how to approach it. Maybe it's going to face the situation with whatever comes.
Opinions guys!!!! hehe

 

[Whynot]

So you mean to tell me were just going for a run out in public and then all of a sudden you O?  I have not eve MO yet, it?s hard to MO without fantasizing of things you have seen throughout the day and past, from what I heard on here MO need to be done with your feelings only  and not visual Fantiziation. 

 

[Alex48]

Sorry if my english not very good. No Papa, y didn t O running hehe. But i experience something like my "friend" need it to (i don t know how to say in english and in a avoid vocabulary here) expel, like pre O. In my case, i felt, at 3 months of reboot, that my body need it to O, but It wasn t because of watching or fantazing while i running.
Even so, I still think that no MO as far as you can is the best way to recover your sexual life!

 

[Brooklyn Jerry]

  That happened to me when I was 15yo over 53 years ago. There was a hooker that came by the tiire shop I worked at on Saturdays, and gave BJ in the back room. imthinkmshe charged 5 bucks. She must have been at least 50 years old. She washed me den with a cloth and Listerne and soon as her mout got close bam right in her face. I sure was embarrassed and the guys all had a good laugh when she came out and told them.

 

[Whynot]

That happened to you when you were 15,  for me I was 45