Hello everyone. I didn't think I had to make a journal at first but now I definately feel the need to start one because I think, this is a special kind of addiction. You can talk to people if you struggle to quit smoking, or losing weight, but this..? I cannot find someone to talk to in real life.
Sparing the details, early 20s I am trying to quit using porn since this October. It was when I had escalated into very extreme material and that's when I started questioning my sexuality. I was never attracted to the things I had been watching over the last years and it had come to the point where I was watching porn compulsively. My porn sessions would be 5 minutes maximum, just to jerk off and get that high to whatever I could find arousing after all these years of porn abuse.
Little progress since then, except that HOCD and other fetishes I had seen in porn and disturbed my every day life don't mess with my interactions with people and my confidence anymore. The problem is I haven't got past 1 month PMO free since then. Actually just now I pmoed. I did it so compulsively I felt really depressed during and after, which is now as I am writing this entry.
I think I have to put big yet realistic goals for myself, because so far I have been trying to achieve everything I could in all the things I am involved in and It hasn't worked at all. I get extremely fatigued physically and psychologically after some time and I just binge to food or porn, like I did now.
I want this to be a fresh start, related to the past but not a product of it. The problem is not masturbation for me, it is porn and the things I have wired my sexuality to. I actually wish I could enjoy masturbation to the sense alone, and of course a beautiful woman in my bed. I hope this is the beginning of the end once and for all. I will try to post every 10 days so that I will be talking about real progress not just empty words followed by relapses. Had enough of those in my head so far, and haven't helped at all.
Wish everyone who is struggling with this addiction the best.
Sparing the details, early 20s I am trying to quit using porn since this October. It was when I had escalated into very extreme material and that's when I started questioning my sexuality. I was never attracted to the things I had been watching over the last years and it had come to the point where I was watching porn compulsively. My porn sessions would be 5 minutes maximum, just to jerk off and get that high to whatever I could find arousing after all these years of porn abuse.
Little progress since then, except that HOCD and other fetishes I had seen in porn and disturbed my every day life don't mess with my interactions with people and my confidence anymore. The problem is I haven't got past 1 month PMO free since then. Actually just now I pmoed. I did it so compulsively I felt really depressed during and after, which is now as I am writing this entry.
I think I have to put big yet realistic goals for myself, because so far I have been trying to achieve everything I could in all the things I am involved in and It hasn't worked at all. I get extremely fatigued physically and psychologically after some time and I just binge to food or porn, like I did now.
I want this to be a fresh start, related to the past but not a product of it. The problem is not masturbation for me, it is porn and the things I have wired my sexuality to. I actually wish I could enjoy masturbation to the sense alone, and of course a beautiful woman in my bed. I hope this is the beginning of the end once and for all. I will try to post every 10 days so that I will be talking about real progress not just empty words followed by relapses. Had enough of those in my head so far, and haven't helped at all.
Wish everyone who is struggling with this addiction the best.