Signs of Improvement

[sserbens]

Hi guys,

I'm new to this site and just have a question. I am about a week into no masturbation after experiencing erectile dysfunction with an absolutely gorgeous woman. I was just wondering, as time goes along, what are some signs of improvement that you can see that will let you know that the reboot is working and things are returning to normal?

Thanks and good luck to everyone else dealing with this. Glad to know that I am not alone.

 

[William]

I have never felt really comfortable talking about about the physical effects porn addiction had on me.  But, a lot of guys want to know how quitting helps, so...my erection before was still there, but only about 80%.  It got the job done, but now at 100%, it REALLY gets the job done.  Yep, home runs on a pretty consistent basis, not bunting any more.  Before I had delayed ejaculation, which is misleading, because it sounds like I came later, but in fact, I almost never came during sex, only during porn. Now, clean, I only come during sex, and it is great.  I don't use porn to reach O anymore.  Ever.  Also, morning wood.  I really never missed it.  But...now that I am clean, I get it most mornings.  It is a sign the reboot is working. 

You need hard mode for 90 days, no porn, no MO, no PMO.  IMO sex is OK as long as what is going on in your head has only to do with the woman you are with.  That is rewiring to reality. 

The whole "nofap" thing is misleading.  Fap was never the problem.  Porn addiction was.  Go to the home page here.  On the right hand side is the Gary Wilson vid.  Watch it.  Watch it again.  Watch it a third time, this time take notes.  Understand what is going on in your head.  The second I understood what was going on in there was the second I quit.  I have been clean for over a year.  My only purpose in writing here is to tell others they can be clean.  I am.  Gabe is.  Many others are.  You can be too.  This is an invitation.  Join us. 

Much love. 

Will I AM.