My ED Story (24 yo)

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So I will try to make this as short as possible. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I am 24 years old and I've had my experience with ED for many years. Before i discovered the underlying issue, I blamed my ED on the factors of that night such as tired, not that attracted to girl, having some drinks. Losing my virginity at 19 was not a great experience.

So fast forward to today, I've been PMO free for 150 days, with about 4 times MO'ing. Ive glanced at porn couple times but haven't came to it. I felt i was cured and ive hd sex many times. Sometimes ive used cialis to make up for past experiences with this one girl.

Right now the only reason i masturbate is to not experience premature ejaculation when i do have sex. I dont actually have a large desire to watch porn or masturbate.
Also, when I have sex once, i want to go for second round but i feel like my libido is completely gone. my morning woods were not there every morning and sort of experienced a wet dream.

What should i do? go for another hard reboot(will be hard because i have beautiful females that want to have sex)? or continue having sex when the time comes and maybe see some improvements as i go? anyone experience low libido for second round and ED?

Thanks everyone. Really appreiciate all the help. This forum has been a great help in my journey.

 

[Vincent]

hoi!
First off: 150 days? WOW! that is pretty impressive I'd like to say.
Your situation seems to me like a stuck. So might be it that you are stuck in a permanent process of no PMO and there already surfaced another problem that is not porn related.

not having morning wood at all sound pretty strange to me especially if you really only MOed 4x during the 150 days. Did you see a physician regarding this?

Another question is regarding Sex: do you enjoy it? are there any kinds of anxiety before you start with it (be it PE, Perf. Anx. or any else)? Not to be able to go another round is not necessarily something strange. If you really do have a great orgasm, the body is so ful of endorphine and Dopamine that there is no place for cGMP - a messenger agent in our cells (the one PDE-5 stuff like Cialis(Tadalafil) actually inhibits from decreasing during sex - so we stay hard). After a crazy orgasm the bodys perception needs to recover and we are oversensitive.

Low libido - or a devastating flatline to be more precise - is what I experienced for the last Year, with and without porn. I cannot say whether this is really changing or getting better as I am still at 3 Weeks.
My suggestion to you however is, to continue a strict: only sex with others routine - non with yourself. At least until you really do see improvements. There can always be a possibility to fall back into old behaviours and to develope a permanently low libido. Please also note that performance anxiety also increases libido loss - it's the case with me......sadly.

hope I could be of some help.

 

[funfocused]

Thank you for the reply.

Its only hard in the beginning to stay away from porn. After a month and half I didn't have the urge to go back go watching it. Sometimes I get the urge after a night of drinking when im hungover next morning.

I have not seen a physician maybe I should.

Also the times I couldn't go second round I did smoke weed after the first orgasm so maybe that messed me up. Next time I will try without it.

Is there any magic supplements to decrease the time needed for second round?

Vincent wish you luck and push through all the cravings.