pls help me guys,i am new here!!

[dhoom3]

hey,

So i am finally here guys!!..My english is not very good so pls don't bear with me.i will start from the beginning!!

i am a healthy 24 year old male with very high sex drive..i was not able to get it up with a girl i met at a bar ..it came as a shock as i always thought of myself as super stud.....so to check i started watching porn more often and started doing masterbation more frequently...i wrote this after doing it 6 times today(even resulted in swelling of the dick)  ....now i don't get morning woods and i have to constantly mastrebate to get solid erection :-\

Now lets go to flashback......i have been watching porn since i was 12 and i have been masterbating since then(atleast 4 times a day)..sometimes i would even do it for 7 times...now i screwed my first gf when i was 14..a sight of bared legs would give me stiff tool for long time...my erections were so strong that my father once told me wear jeans when guests would show up at home! 
now this continued till july 2014 when i FAILED for the first time...i told my gf i am not in mood...i was able to get erection with masterbation(constant touch of dick),it would give me rock hard erection but it would go off when i stop jerking so i told her m nt in a mood to do it...now i read about this forum and i have read few posts and decided to be porn and masterbation free for 3 months...

guys is my problem related to over masterbation,porn and anxiety??? can i overcome it if i stop p/m for 3 months?? pls help,i am going on a vacation to spain this december...i need to have sex like before!!

pls pls reply!!

 

[Eidan]

I think your need to read that
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=15558.0

 

[dhoom3]

thanks for the reply..i read that article!!
it was a good one

but can someone pls answer my questions in a brief manner...i am new here and i need support

 

[Eidan]

If it s not physical, and if it s not because of performance anxiety, it s probably PIED.

I ve masturbated almost daily for more than 10 years, probably for 5 years relying on porn, and usually at least 2 times a day, sometimes 7 or 8 times. This video will probably explain it for you and tell you if you problem is related to porn or not.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

 

[dhoom3]

i went to a urologist..he asked my history and examined my genitals did blood test and sugar test...he said he didnt find any abnormality and he refused to do any further tests.he was confident that nothing physical is there as i can masturbate with full erection..he told me to forget all this and study...i am confused now...

so maytb its anxiety or my dick is used to masturbation and porn addiction?? :-\

 

[Eidan]

You sound like a guy ( who I was, so maybe m just projecting ) who wishes it s not related to porn because he doesn't want to give it up. Just quit it for 3 months, no porn, no masturbation, no orgasm, worst case scenario, you ve missed 3 months of new porn released material, you will be able to catch up . Best case scenario your life will become awesome and your dick fully functional again 

 

[dhoom3]

You sound like a guy ( who I was, so maybe m just projecting ) who wishes it s not related to porn because he doesn't want to give it up. Just quit it for 3 months, no porn, no masturbation, no orgasm, worst case scenario, you ve missed 3 months of new porn released material, you will be able to catch up . Best case scenario your life will become awesome and your dick fully functional again 

bro i am sorry if i feel a bit inclined towards the type of guy who doesn't want to blame porn(since it's a PIED forum)..but if there is no physical abnormality( as the doctor says) then its either porn/masturbation or anxiety..whatever it is,i will try no to touch my tool for 3 months nd wont see any porn!!....anyways its a bit personal but as u say i sound like the you used to be can u pls tell me did u notice any change in lifestyle after quitting porn and masturbation??

 

[Eidan]

As the first link I posted suggests, it s not only about stoping porn and masturbation, it s also about turning your life around. Watch the youtube video I ve posted, the guy speaks about most of men s reaction and gains after quiting porn and masturbation.

_ more confidence
_ more energy
_ more socializing

I just have this feeling when I read you that you are just desperate to find a solution to be able to have sex, I  ve got the feeling that your are really really looking for your dopamine boost. We are addicts, and we need to accept that this addiction is bad for us and that we need to get rid of it. Its not only about sex, and pleasure, and erection, it s also about being able to take control over ourselves back 

good luck

 

[dhoom3]

As the first link I posted suggests, it s not only about stoping porn and masturbation, it s also about turning your life around. Watch the youtube video I ve posted, the guy speaks about most of men s reaction and gains after quiting porn and masturbation.

_ more confidence
_ more energy
_ more socializing

I just have this feeling when I read you that you are just desperate to find a solution to be able to have sex, I  ve got the feeling that your are really really looking for your dopamine boost. We are addicts, and we need to accept that this addiction is bad for us and that we need to get rid of it. Its not only about sex, and pleasure, and erection, it s also about being able to take control over ourselves back 

good luck

thanks....u are right!!..mayb i am focusing just on sex(but hey!!..i am a man afteral) jokes apart did u see any improvements in your social life,way of thinking,doing more productive things?? and what about PIED?? did it show any improvement too?

 

[Eidan]

M definitivly more confident and socialize much more. I also enjoy more daily stupid things, taking so much dopamine all the time seems to decrease the pleasure for other things, they are not able to compete with porn.

Regarding my PIED is too early to say, even though this morning I woke up with a full erection which lasted longer than usual. I feel also that mi dick is more sensitive.

I strongly recommend, and i can't stress that enough, that you lift weight and take daily cold shower during your reboot, trust me, it s gonna be a huge help for your reboot and for everything in your life. If you can take a 10 minutes cold shower everyday, you can take anything

 

[dhoom3]

M definitivly more confident and socialize much more. I also enjoy more daily stupid things, taking so much dopamine all the time seems to decrease the pleasure for other things, they are not able to compete with porn.

Regarding my PIED is too early to say, even though this morning I woke up with a full erection which lasted longer than usual. I feel also that mi dick is more sensitive.

I strongly recommend, and i can't stress that enough, that you lift weight and take daily cold shower during your reboot, trust me, it s gonna be a huge help for your reboot and for everything in your life. If you can take a 10 minutes cold shower everyday, you can take anything

Thanks bud..you're the only one replying here..others are just reading
I will try to stay away from porn and masterbation but I must say its very difficult...I started rebooting yesterday and I mo just now ..will reset my time..I masturbate in bed imagining my gf as my pillow then I fuck the pillow(kinda perverted ) mayb I should replace the pillow and put porn blockers on comp...I will update u about my progress..now I have some doubt about masturbation...do we need to remove mo completely or we can do it once in a week after a gap of 1 month??

 

[Eidan]

M stilll struggling with MO and masturbation, I think it s wayyyyy better to stop it all . And don t be hard on the other guys, they are so  many journals we can't answer to every post ^^

 

[dhoom3]

M stilll struggling with MO and masturbation, I think it s wayyyyy better to stop it all . And don t be hard on the other guys, they are so  many journals we can't answer to every post ^^

Yeah but one needs to understand that every guy here was once A newcomer to this forum and he was desperate to seek help like me
Thanks for the help mate!!

I am on a roll to make myself Pmo free from now on...counter reset!!