started reboot at 12 September 2018
- Thread starter Do or die
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Rebooter2019
Active Member
You can do it man, you've already beaten several time my best amount of days without porn!
Keep at it and start to see yourself as a person who don't watch porn instead of a guy who want to stop watching porn it might be easier stay on track!!
Keep at it and start to see yourself as a person who don't watch porn instead of a guy who want to stop watching porn it might be easier stay on track!!
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changemylife
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To be honest, I wonder if sometimes we complicate ourselves. We think this addiction is mega hard and it might be but mentality is what matters. If you told yourself it will be easy, it might make things easier. By saying that PMO is super hard to quit, we put ourselves in that state of mind of fighting against a 100 feet tall giant. You know what they say that the mind is everything? Maybe we could exploit this.Rebooter2019 said:
Rebooter2019
Active Member
It's sure that up to a certain point you're right, but the research show that it's almost the same thing as if you would take a sniff of cocaine. But PMO has more the effect that ressemble to heroin. The level of addictiveness is relatively high, so it hard. So, we can try to exploit our own mind, but we may risk to delude ourselves and each time that we relapse there could be only one person responsible... oneself! That is why acknowledge the difficulty of this addiction help to ease the burden that you may feel when you relapse! There again you don't want to go the other extreme and say it's only the addiction. You have a big part of reponsability in that addiction, but straight out bashing yourself is not the way either!
From how I see things, one has to find a middle ground where you accept the responsability of your act, but at the same time know that you may encounter some bump! Another risk of telling youself that it is easy to overcome is that when you'll have urges and cravings you're more likely to relapse, because your brain is Extraordinarely good at using logic to get you to relapse. The risk is that he will convince you that you can do it one more time, because it is easy to go back on track and get over that addiction.
That why I feel like it's really risky. The exemple above is one of many that I thought, just don't want to write an essay
Hope that it will help you to decide what you want to do and keep at it alot of people as succed in reboot. You can do it too man!!
From how I see things, one has to find a middle ground where you accept the responsability of your act, but at the same time know that you may encounter some bump! Another risk of telling youself that it is easy to overcome is that when you'll have urges and cravings you're more likely to relapse, because your brain is Extraordinarely good at using logic to get you to relapse. The risk is that he will convince you that you can do it one more time, because it is easy to go back on track and get over that addiction.
That why I feel like it's really risky. The exemple above is one of many that I thought, just don't want to write an essay
Hope that it will help you to decide what you want to do and keep at it alot of people as succed in reboot. You can do it too man!!
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changemylife
Guest
Yeah, man, maybe you're right. I just don't want to look at the addiction like a big giant impossible to overcome. Because that's how it sounds when I say it's hard. But maybe pretending is easy it's not good either. I don't know, I have to experiment with things and if something works, only then I could make sense.
Rebooter2019
Active Member
We can try to see this addiction like a wall that three time our height. Seem impossible to climb barehand, but with some tools like, rope, hook, etc... it's much easier to climb, but the most important thing is that it's now climbable. Where as before it wasn't.
The tools right now would be knowledge, support and a good lifestyle. Individually they can do so much, but all together they can do wonder! These won't remove the work necessary that succed, but it will lessen the burden of that work!
Wish you the best everyone!
The tools right now would be knowledge, support and a good lifestyle. Individually they can do so much, but all together they can do wonder! These won't remove the work necessary that succed, but it will lessen the burden of that work!
Wish you the best everyone!
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changemylife
Guest
We're getting back up there. Day 4 hard mode, there's no other way.Do or die said:
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changemylife
Guest
Me too. Binged today.Do or die said:
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changemylife
Guest
I know, bro. I binged yesterday. Now I have to start over again. Sometimes I'm tired. I just wish I could do it already.Do or die said:
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changemylife
Guest
I know, bro.Do or die said:
I discovered I was addicted to P in November last year. Until then I had no idea that P was an addiction, I thought I was addicted to masturbation. I think it was the "autosuggestion in the beginning" type of thing cause I felt reinforced and I was sure I could beat this in a few months. A couple of months later, I've binged several times and I started to lose hope. Sometimes it feels like a big giant to fight. Sometimes I feel too weak to get up again and again. I've seen users around here saying they've been trying to quit for years. This only scares me. Do I have to fight years of relapsing? I don't know, man, it's hard.
pruthukkc
Active Member
Just find your why. You can do it bro! We are here to help you . Just find your why....... Set goals, readjust your daily routine, take small steps to change. Frequently interact with people's search for something which will create passion about it like any Kind a Sport, Arts or any kind a hobby which will bring positivity in your life man. Don't affraid man! Accept that you addicted to porn and now you are going to change. How many people's are watching porn in today's century? Search in google and you will see how great you are because you decide to change now you are not supporting human trafficking and spectrum of prostituation. Be proud about ourself. I knew it's difficult to handle urges, withdrawals. It really tough but if you know you why you will win this battle.changemylife said:
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changemylife
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Judging by how many people watch P, we are brave to attempt to quit this.pruthukkc said: