I do know what you're talking about, at least insofar as you seem to agree with joepanic. You're seeing a logical problem... to beat the addiction, you must do something that is conditional upon having first beaten the addiction. Except, that isn't what he was saying. You cite Malando's post, but Malando himself has said his post was based on a misreading where the first post was left too much open to interpretation. Personally, I never had that interpretive problem... I saw it just as him feeling on top of the world for finally getting something off of his chest, which is beneficial to really anyone. He advised others to try the same, which I responded with my own reservations (opening up isn't an option, or a wise option, for everyone), but had no problem with his advice with said conditions. The problem is that your criticism is based on something you imagined him saying. Once that falls through, the criticism should become null, but somehow it is hanging on for no obvious reason.
Or, maybe many simply read a "holier than thou" tone to his post, and felt a need to tear him down for waiting for nine months into a reboot. Again, there is nothing in his text that lends a superior/condescending tone. I read it as catharsis and enthusiasm. Many others have posted on this board in the same way and from the same spirited disposition, including myself! When we have good days, we want to share our success. If I am missing some line where he berates people on the board or tries to make himself seem superior, then someone please quote it. Otherwise, you're putting words into his mouth and getting upset at him for things he never said.
Thank you kindly for your advice on which body parts you feel I need to grow to greater fortitude, but I really don't think my masculine proportions are relevant to the issue at hand. Show us exactly what is getting your knickers into a twist on this instead of just saying "bullshit" over and over again, and changing the subject to my testicular endowment. This board needs to be better than just shouting matches.
We need to be taking great joy in the successes and charitable in the setbacks of our fellow rebooters, regardless of where in the journey they lie. I don't see much point in working against this.