a_lovly_boy143
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can i watch at girls?? Am on 22nd day of my reboot .. And i feel a very strong attraction towards girls u knOw... So please tell me can i watch at girls? (Except of voyeur eye ok)... Please answer am waiting......!
i feel attraction...!
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a_lovly_boy143 said:
These are decisions for you to make. Nobody can tell you how to recover.
Isn't it natural to be attracted to women? Its how you go about it. If you're gonna sit there and perv on girl after girl, then you're probably doing it wrong. But if you were to find one attractive, and go and talk to her as a result. Would that be an issue?
a_lovly_boy143
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yes thats am asking from you am here to ask not to answer man... Please tell me .. Is simple eye-contact is wrong for me? I dont talking about watching out whole body or starring someone.. I am just talking about eye-contact.. So please answer guyZz...
Eye contact is good. I'll tell you about the theory I formulated over the past few days; you need to humanise the women you meet. By this I mean that staring at a woman in the street, she might as well be pixels on your screen. Eye contact, a lasting smile, a little verbal exchange humanises them, brings them into your world and makes them a real person. Don't get me wrong, everyone you see has a story to tell, they're all worthy of your respect, but if your gawking at a pretty lady, your addiction recovering brain won't know any better. When they address you in their words or body language, that's what really separates meeting women from looking at pictures of them on your screen.
So that would be my advice, don't gawk, talk.
So that would be my advice, don't gawk, talk.
a_lovly_boy143
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oh man.. Today i went through a wet dream after 8 days... I am feeling a bit weak i dont knOw why. Today is day 23.... Here is mOrning nOw... I'll update what happens during the day !
a_lovly_boy143
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is it necessary to talk to them instead of simple eye contact? Plzzzz tell me fast
a_lovly_boy143
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hey..?????? I want simple answer man?? Yess or nO??? Plzzzzzz i request yOu tell me simply.. No moRe joking.
a_lovly_boy143
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feelS sooo good.. I feel my heart just beating just for one girl in the world... I dont see any other girl without her because i lOve her.. But i have'nt had sex with her and dont wish that before marriage.. But am asking for eye contact.. For me it feels good but is it allowed during rebooot?
a_lovly_boy143
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feelS sooo good.. I feel my heart just beating just for one girl in the world... I dont see any other girl without her because i lOve her.. But i have'nt had sex with her and dont wish that before marriage.. But am asking for eye contact.. For me it feels good but is it allowed during rebooot?
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Bro, it sounds like you need to calm down and stop over thinking things. Yes, you can look at girls during your reboot. Just avoid using anything that is not a real person to become aroused. Stop any behavior that you feel mimics porn use.
Bro, it sounds like you need to calm down and stop over thinking things. Yes, you can look at girls during your reboot. Just avoid using anything that is not a real person to become aroused. Stop any behavior that you feel mimics porn use.