I'm new here. My H was found out last February...A guiding voice literally pointed me to evidence.
He's been using heavily since before we moved back to my hometown. He states he began to become very insecure. He also got bit by many ticks and had the rash less than a year before we moved here. He "crossed the skin line" 1x (he states) in July last year. I feel that is a big fat lie. I know there is much more to hear from him. He's way too nervous since discovery. He has never offered me evidence, I have found it all on my own, and it still keeps coming. He appears ready to unburden himself. I have created a stash of evidence, waiting for full disclosure day. We are living apart. I have the house, he has a trailer with a 2 folding tables and a box of dishes. Shame is heavy on him but so is guilt.
My question is this:
Is cold turkey really possible??? From what I read, this is worse than heroin to kick. I would think, if you escalate to a level 2 user, (of 3 levels) cold turkey is not an option, let alone stopping at all. He goes from blind rage to cool cocky and collected. I have physical evidence that he is still using. My terror is that he's no longer masturbating and is hooking up with actual women. He's also been chewing gum. He's not a gum chewer... is there a drug out there that is delivered via chewing gum? When he's chewing gum, he's bold, cocky, arrogant, etc. Something is just off.. my instincts are all over the place.
He's been using heavily since before we moved back to my hometown. He states he began to become very insecure. He also got bit by many ticks and had the rash less than a year before we moved here. He "crossed the skin line" 1x (he states) in July last year. I feel that is a big fat lie. I know there is much more to hear from him. He's way too nervous since discovery. He has never offered me evidence, I have found it all on my own, and it still keeps coming. He appears ready to unburden himself. I have created a stash of evidence, waiting for full disclosure day. We are living apart. I have the house, he has a trailer with a 2 folding tables and a box of dishes. Shame is heavy on him but so is guilt.
My question is this:
Is cold turkey really possible??? From what I read, this is worse than heroin to kick. I would think, if you escalate to a level 2 user, (of 3 levels) cold turkey is not an option, let alone stopping at all. He goes from blind rage to cool cocky and collected. I have physical evidence that he is still using. My terror is that he's no longer masturbating and is hooking up with actual women. He's also been chewing gum. He's not a gum chewer... is there a drug out there that is delivered via chewing gum? When he's chewing gum, he's bold, cocky, arrogant, etc. Something is just off.. my instincts are all over the place.