So, I took a cialis yesterday in case my wife instigated anything and as I thought she did. It went well tbh
I was about 80% errect and although I nearly flopped mid way through I did manage to finish and she was really happy... As was I!
It was a massive relief tbh.
I genuinely don't know what causes my issue and I'm not entirely sure if it's P related but just stopping watching it after so many years was what gave me a huge urge to feel release and ultimately caused me to brave it out and see if I could make progress with my wife.
It's been hit and miss but had I have not stopped watching it I wouldn't have got anywhere so I'm that respect it has benefited me immensely.
I think that watching those images of such perfect and beautiful women do some of the things they do with such passion and desire... Well, they set a bar that my wife would never reach and so trying to achieve the same level of turn on is impossible.
As soon as her manual stimulation stops my errection vanashes in an instant. Even whilst having P in V ands really difficult to maintain and finish because my errection subsides until its just noodle.
I find myself looking and trying to wake myself up to what I am doing, how it feels and... Well, anything to push me over the edge and clearly it shouldn't be that way.
But, if taking cialis and starving myself for weeks at a time is what it takes then that's what I will have to do.
Hopefully as my confidence, and her confidence improves we will become a touch more relaxed, maybe a bit more edgy and expansive and that will help with the problem because straight up missionary is really difficult for me.
My wife's quiet large and so other positions are difficult and by the time we moved around my errection has gone and then I'm hit by the fear of failure again.
For today I'm happy, I'd very much like to have a couple more successes and that would make failure a bit easier to take knowing that for a fair portion of the time it should work out.
It makes you not want to try and that fear of failure detracts from a lot of the pleasure.
Anyway, I'll keep posting any progress but I just wanted to update because it was only 2 weeks ago I had suicidal thoughts enter my head I was in such distress with it.
Today is a good day and it's important I write these days as much as the bad days. It's important, at least to me, that I document progress as much as failure.