AlexthenotsoGreat
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New month, new opportunities. Let's get back on track for march and another two months! This is the big haul, and I'm gonna do it even if I have to use a tranquilizer on myself. Who's up for the challenge!
AlexthenotsoGreat said:New month, new opportunities. Let's get back on track for march and another two months! This is the big haul, and I'm gonna do it even if I have to use a tranquilizer on myself. Who's up for the challenge!
What's different about a new calender month and its ability to effect recovery?
AlexthenotsoGreat said:Lastly, I know it's not popular to say this and I'll probably receive some flack, but I honestly think that it will be easier to overcome porn for those of us who have either an active social life, a spouse, or a girlfriend. They often have shorter windows in which to use, while others of us have to battle the temptation for multiple hours, sometimes even days at a time. In their case I think it's simply a case of having to grow up and quit pining for the days of their youth through porn. I'm not saying that their cravings will be any less than mine, but come on, how do a few hours of cravings compare to days of them? I don't say this lightly either. This is what I've concluded from approximately 5-6 years of doing 12-step for sex and porn addicts. I've watched grown, married men in their fifties complain as if they had the hardest time of it, and frankly, I find it a bit pathetic. There are also others who have overcome it, and I can't help but think it largely has to do with motivation. The ones who beat the addiction have never been single men. I don't think this is a coincidence. No, I'm not saying that marriage or a relationship is the golden rainbow that leads to a pot of gold, but gratitude for what you have can lead a long way as I've heard from those (most of them friends) who are "recovered" addicts (as if you're ever recovered) and whom I greatly respect.
rohit6223 said:Hey brother!
I successfully completed the free march today or in other words , today i today successfully completed staying away from PMO for this whole month!
I hope you also kept your end of the promise and if u didn't i want you to create free April from tomorrow and stay 100% committed to it. and i wish you a all the best for all your future endeavors.