LeanAndBop
Active Member
jixu said:I would like to make a suggestion so as not to lose the linguistic battle. You talked about having shame-I know what you mean and I hear you. However, how about saying you feel frustration or disappointment, instead of saying you feel shame ? You are among equals here friend-no need for shame here or "out there" for that matter.
You are wrong about your commitment to help others-you are already helping people. I have seen your comments many times, cheering a weary traveller on. To help people in the midst of your own struggle says a lot about you.
The fact that you have been at it for five years is of little relevant significance as to what happens today or tomorrow. You have a good attitude and a lot of tenacity; many would have given up, but you are still fighting. Let's do this!
Hey jixu,
Thanks.
I understand where you are coming from with language use. I use the word shame as I feel that, not another emotion. But yes maybe there is no need for it, little benefit.
I really appreciate your comment. It's kind of you. Wishing you well.