ToBeOrNotToBe
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Hey guys,
I'm almost 200 days into my reboot (no PMO, but last orgasm a little more than three months ago) because I couldn't get hard without stimulation. I have a girlfriend and she knows about everything.
What we do in order to rewire my brain is cuddling, kissing and basically everything which doesn't involve my dick. What I'm wondering is the following: The last time we spent time together in bed, I didn't get hard even though I really enjoyed the situation. After a while she accidentally touched my penis and didn't remove her hand. Instead, she started stroking it really gently, so there was almost no stimulation at all. I didn't want her to take her hand off my dick either because at this moment, I simply enjoyed the feeling of my penis being touched (which doesn't happen too often, after all). The result was that I got hard and she gave me a blowjob (without O, though). It was really intense and reminded me why I'm going through this shit.
Now my question. I'm still far from being cured, so could getting an erection caused by soft stimulation be harmful for my reboot? I mean I didn't make it hard on my own, really only enjoyed the sensation and didn't think of porn at that moment. On the other hand, don't I have to wait until my dick gets hard without ANY physical stimulation?
I'm almost 200 days into my reboot (no PMO, but last orgasm a little more than three months ago) because I couldn't get hard without stimulation. I have a girlfriend and she knows about everything.
What we do in order to rewire my brain is cuddling, kissing and basically everything which doesn't involve my dick. What I'm wondering is the following: The last time we spent time together in bed, I didn't get hard even though I really enjoyed the situation. After a while she accidentally touched my penis and didn't remove her hand. Instead, she started stroking it really gently, so there was almost no stimulation at all. I didn't want her to take her hand off my dick either because at this moment, I simply enjoyed the feeling of my penis being touched (which doesn't happen too often, after all). The result was that I got hard and she gave me a blowjob (without O, though). It was really intense and reminded me why I'm going through this shit.
Now my question. I'm still far from being cured, so could getting an erection caused by soft stimulation be harmful for my reboot? I mean I didn't make it hard on my own, really only enjoyed the sensation and didn't think of porn at that moment. On the other hand, don't I have to wait until my dick gets hard without ANY physical stimulation?