sandiego_surf
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Hi Everyone,
Greetings from San Diego California.
I?m 29, 170 lbs, fit, 15 year lust addict, still a virgin and seriously struggling with Premature Ejaculation and wonder if anyone can relate to my story & share hope.
After day 74 of no PMO, I went out with a girl and got to the point where we were about to have sex. Pants were off, and as she was holding me and playing with me around her edge I came before penetration. Yes it was nerves and excitement but I have a deep fear that this problem is here to stay.
Are there other methods for a virgin to re-wire that don?t require sex? I?ve been holding out for so long because of my Christian values and obviously pushed the edges too far with this girl, but part of it was to test whether or not I?m functioning better that I have some sobriety under my belt.
I guess how can one really tell if I?m functioning the way I should? My morning wood is about 50% still..... I?m afraid my recovery is only just beginning but any resources around Premature ejaculation would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!
Surf
Greetings from San Diego California.
I?m 29, 170 lbs, fit, 15 year lust addict, still a virgin and seriously struggling with Premature Ejaculation and wonder if anyone can relate to my story & share hope.
After day 74 of no PMO, I went out with a girl and got to the point where we were about to have sex. Pants were off, and as she was holding me and playing with me around her edge I came before penetration. Yes it was nerves and excitement but I have a deep fear that this problem is here to stay.
Are there other methods for a virgin to re-wire that don?t require sex? I?ve been holding out for so long because of my Christian values and obviously pushed the edges too far with this girl, but part of it was to test whether or not I?m functioning better that I have some sobriety under my belt.
I guess how can one really tell if I?m functioning the way I should? My morning wood is about 50% still..... I?m afraid my recovery is only just beginning but any resources around Premature ejaculation would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!
Surf