chaosbrain44
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Let me apologize on the front end if any of this is too explicit. Feel free to suggest edits.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship. We see each other about every 1-3 months. This means we will sometimes have phone sex, video sex or do "sexting"... obviously this means masterbation, but no porn is involved. I'm connecting with a real person who I actually know and care about. However, I'm not sure where the lines are. I wonder if this hurts my potential recovery.
The other thing I'm unsure about is when we are together. While we mostly stick to "standard sex stuff" we do like to masterbate together, and typically at the end of sex, I'll jerk off into her mouth. This is mutually enjoyable, but I worry that this is just keeping my penis conditioned to respond to my hand.
Do you think these things are setting me back?
I'm currently in a long distance relationship. We see each other about every 1-3 months. This means we will sometimes have phone sex, video sex or do "sexting"... obviously this means masterbation, but no porn is involved. I'm connecting with a real person who I actually know and care about. However, I'm not sure where the lines are. I wonder if this hurts my potential recovery.
The other thing I'm unsure about is when we are together. While we mostly stick to "standard sex stuff" we do like to masterbate together, and typically at the end of sex, I'll jerk off into her mouth. This is mutually enjoyable, but I worry that this is just keeping my penis conditioned to respond to my hand.
Do you think these things are setting me back?