Malauss?ne
New Member
Hi everyone, I am 20 years old, I am student and I?m from Italy and I have a girlfriend. I have chosen this title because it depicts my situation and my goals. I do have a porn addiction and I want to quit form it. I know it would be hard for me and I am scared to be disappointed of myself. It?s not just me, I am not alone. I am not the only one and I am not doing this just for myself. It?s for her too, and all people I love. I want them to see a self-reliant man, as just few days ago my beloved asked me. And she did was serious. But I was hiding from myself, hiding from the truth and the weight of a real problem. An addiction that makes me unfaithful to her and makes me feel terrible when I tell her she?s the only I love and like. Which is the truth in my soul but is also a shadow on these words. Sound a bit rhetoric ya? But it?s the truth. I want to be free, I want to make all the things I can and learn and work and relax and sleep in the same time that in last months I wasted on porn sites. I am going to see her in a few days and it will be our last time in same place before her departure to another country. I think she would be disappointed knowing the whole story about me when we are not together. Last time we met I have been just an idiot when we had sex. I had watched videos on porn sites to find new positions but this mad me full of anxiety and unconfident and for the first time I thought I had not the full control of me. It was awful . Porn is not real. And love and sex can (only) live without it. I want to be free, as I said. Just like when I am with her, making my special one feel well as she deserves. I am writing her at 4 in the morning also for here. Maybe one day I will tell her about this post and how easy was to write it and how difficult to make it real. I can live without porn. I need to liberate me from it to live as a normal person. I want to see and count my achievements and write about my problem and my feelings in passing it by, and be useful to other people like me if I can.
So, I am at the start of a new road. I want to thank all the people that spend time to make this site and forum live and grow and work. Thanks to the admins and webmasters and members. I will tell you about my path and the beautiful and forgotten things that I am sure I will find on it.
So, I am at the start of a new road. I want to thank all the people that spend time to make this site and forum live and grow and work. Thanks to the admins and webmasters and members. I will tell you about my path and the beautiful and forgotten things that I am sure I will find on it.