MIND IS CLOUDED

persian29

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ive noticed that when i masterbate that my mind tends to not think as much or as hard about anything anymore and is alot lazier. i tend to zone out all the time and just dont give a [email protected]# about contributing to any conversations or just cant really be witty or think on my feet. anyone else feel like they lose alot of brain power in this way?
 

sender

Active Member
Yes!  And it's not just through MO.  The same thing happens to me whenever I O.  My wife and I have been practicing non-orgasmic sex, and having performed enough experiments both ways, I've come to the conclusion that I am much happier and more productive when I don't O at all.  And ironically, the sex is more frequent and 10 X better.

I realize this is somewhat of a controversial path, but I'm not suggesting that anyone else go down it.  Just responding to your question with my own experience. 
 

weir

Member
sender said:
Yes!  And it's not just through MO.  The same thing happens to me whenever I O.  My wife and I have been practicing non-orgasmic sex, and having performed enough experiments both ways, I've come to the conclusion that I am much happier and more productive when I don't O at all.  And ironically, the sex is more frequent and 10 X better.

I realize this is somewhat of a controversial path, but I'm not suggesting that anyone else go down it.  Just responding to your question with my own experience.

Plz dont mind but i want to ask...at the end how is she satisfied??

do u use anything or....

plz answer
 

sender

Active Member
No problem - it's a great question to which there is no quick / simple answer.  The practice is called Karezza, and you can find out all about it here: http://www.reuniting.info.  I discovered it while learning about how to reboot from PMO and tried it as a way to continue to have sexual contact with my wife while avoiding orgasm during reboot.  What we discovered is that orgasm has a huge cost to it, and the converse - no orgasm, had surprising and unexpected benefits.

Now, we just finish when one or both of us feels satisfied; that we've had enough for now.  It's a paradigm shift, which means you can't understand it just by reading the words; you'd have to experience it before it really made sense to you.  But if you take a moment and think about it, sex with orgasm isn't really that satisfying anyway; usually it's over too quickly, you get a few seconds of intense pleasure, and most of the time leading up to it is focused on getting to those few seconds, so you basically miss everything in between.

When we skip the O, we both become so much more sensitive and feel a lot more, we feel more connected during sex and enjoy it more too.  Afterwards, we both feel still connected and wonderful, and we feel ready to go again at any time.  Sometimes we have sex every day for an hour of more!  That's a lot of pleasure I'm not willing to give up.

It takes practice to be sure, and it felt strange at first.  But we will never go back.
 

persian29

Member
sender said:
No problem - it's a great question to which there is no quick / simple answer.  The practice is called Karezza, and you can find out all about it here: http://www.reuniting.info.  I discovered it while learning about how to reboot from PMO and tried it as a way to continue to have sexual contact with my wife while avoiding orgasm during reboot.  What we discovered is that orgasm has a huge cost to it, and the converse - no orgasm, had surprising and unexpected benefits.

Now, we just finish when one or both of us feels satisfied; that we've had enough for now.  It's a paradigm shift, which means you can't understand it just by reading the words; you'd have to experience it before it really made sense to you.  But if you take a moment and think about it, sex with orgasm isn't really that satisfying anyway; usually it's over too quickly, you get a few seconds of intense pleasure, and most of the time leading up to it is focused on getting to those few seconds, so you basically miss everything in between.

When we skip the O, we both become so much more sensitive and feel a lot more, we feel more connected during sex and enjoy it more too.  Afterwards, we both feel still connected and wonderful, and we feel ready to go again at any time.  Sometimes we have sex every day for an hour of more!  That's a lot of pleasure I'm not willing to give up.

It takes practice to be sure, and it felt strange at first.  But we will never go back.

This is very impressive and requires a strong mind in order to perform. I personally would feel that it would be too close to edging, but, I guess if it works than dont let anyone stop you!
 
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