worldnomad
New Member
Hi,
I'm new here and thought I'd post for some advice/encouragement. I've been using porn for about 8 years and have recently in the last year noted my insane addiction to porn. After failed attempts of having sex with (what I thought) to be extremely attractive girls, I knew there was a problem. Then, I realized I could only have sex if it was only a minute or two.
About a month and a half ago, I strived up the courage to cut my porn addiction to once a week, and about 10 days ago I stopped watching porn completely- and I feel as though- and I'm 100% confident when I say this- I have no desire to watch porn. I want to be able to have great sex again without having anxiety about my penis becoming limp. This desire to have sex is my drive to not watch anymore porn.
My problem (and from what I'm reading is extremely common) is that I have no sex drive right now, no urge to jack off, can't get hard during sex easily, cannot penetrate for long periods of time, my penis doesn't feel anything when I see a hot girl/ect. It feels SO weird. Will this stuff go away? I can get morning wood now which I think is a good step in the right direction.
Should I be doing anything? Trying to jack off to prior sexual experiences? Try and jack off in the mornings with my morning wood? Try and have a partner sensual touch/ massage eachother erotically? I just feel like.. if I sit here with no sex drive and don't jack off, then I will never be able to again.
Thanks for all the support guys.
I'm new here and thought I'd post for some advice/encouragement. I've been using porn for about 8 years and have recently in the last year noted my insane addiction to porn. After failed attempts of having sex with (what I thought) to be extremely attractive girls, I knew there was a problem. Then, I realized I could only have sex if it was only a minute or two.
About a month and a half ago, I strived up the courage to cut my porn addiction to once a week, and about 10 days ago I stopped watching porn completely- and I feel as though- and I'm 100% confident when I say this- I have no desire to watch porn. I want to be able to have great sex again without having anxiety about my penis becoming limp. This desire to have sex is my drive to not watch anymore porn.
My problem (and from what I'm reading is extremely common) is that I have no sex drive right now, no urge to jack off, can't get hard during sex easily, cannot penetrate for long periods of time, my penis doesn't feel anything when I see a hot girl/ect. It feels SO weird. Will this stuff go away? I can get morning wood now which I think is a good step in the right direction.
Should I be doing anything? Trying to jack off to prior sexual experiences? Try and jack off in the mornings with my morning wood? Try and have a partner sensual touch/ massage eachother erotically? I just feel like.. if I sit here with no sex drive and don't jack off, then I will never be able to again.
Thanks for all the support guys.
