NobodyInParticular
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I started my reboot officially on 9/8/2014. It was actually a few weeks before September 8th that I had my last fix. On September 8th I took measures to get rid of all sexual stimulation. I spoke to my wife and we decided that anything with a woman that would be clad in a less than modest way (department store underwear ads, websites with any sort of ad on the side, etc.) One thing in particular was Facebook. Anyways... On the sixth and seventh day of reboot I could not stop being turned on by sleeping next to my wife, so naturally we caved to our urges, both days. So we started over but today, on the fifth day again, sleeping next to my wife again, I could not stop from getting an erection. I didn't give in but I felt sexually charged all day thinking about her. I was surfing Facebook and there was a little ad on the bottom of the page that talked about women that had their clothes painted on and that I wouldn't believe what I could and couldn't see. I clicked on it (I think I knew what I was clicking on when I clicked it, but it wasn't with the intent of looking at porn.) I saw the pics, the woman was attractive and I felt sexually excited without erection, but I felt an excitement and a sort of tingle that one would get right before climax. I am not sure if I am ruining my reboot or what... Will someone please give me some guidance on this? I have experienced erectile dysfunction as a result of the addiction, but if I am supposed to stay completely away from everything this may not be possible. Also, I may have to move into a different room if my wife is included on this list. Please advise...