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Anti-porn FR said:I think it's because of my obsession with fantasizing out of thin air. At the beginning it starts from a fantasy with a girl in a cafe, a nice little discussion and then comes to a daring sexual fantasy. I get excited, I think about porn, I hesitate then I relapse.
Definitely. I have a similar problem. Porn fantasies and flashbacks stimulate the addicted brain and work the dopamine, that's why it's best to be dealt with. It's not easy, though. In my case, it's been the hardest part of my recovery attempt. I do a pretty good job at staying away from deliberately searching for content but the "porn in my head" always got to me. I can't count how many times I've relapsed because I engaged too much with fantasies and flashbacks. But it's definitely something we must tone down. Those fantasies and flashbacks will pop up in our mind, we can't avoid it, because it's part of the withdrawal, it's the addiction's attempt to make you feed it dopamine and get to the strongest stuff that it likes, but we have to spend as little time as possible with them because it's a slippery slope. I'll try to "look away" when those things come into my head or something.