A great idea to stop fantasizing, checking girls out, and having bad thoughts

[Eidan]

Hello there, so today I was wandering through a wonderful city, with plenty of very beautiful women around me. But I ve decided some days ago I would stop as much as possible, to fantasize, to check them out, and not to let my glance wander bellow their chin.

Of course it's hard, so in the morning I relapsed a few times, and check some girls ass out. I was in a slope and one of them passed by a road sign, a big red and white " STOP " sign lool . So I stopped, and I realized it was quite an effective symbole, so all day long, every time I would start checking a girl out, or feeling the urge to do so, or having negative feelings, this big red and white STOP sign would pop up, I would visualize it and it would prevent me from relapsing. Sometimes I would read the sign aloud in my head, or hear the sound that trucks and bus make when they go backwards.

anyway I found it very useful, I recommend you give it a try

 

[Brooklyn Jerry]

  Is looking at women really a problem. I know I looked at attractive women before I knew the reason why. My mom told me when I was 5 there was a women named Dagmar on a TV show, a Swedish busty blond. My mom told me I used to like to watch her. I do notice women while driving in my car and for sure in stores. In fact I just came home from shopping and saw 2 nice looking ladies. One was a mom covered with tattoo's the other an older lady,or my age tall and busty. I sure took a look at her and wondered how hot she must have been 30 years ago  I am sure she knows people look at her although she was wearing a loose fitting T shirt and not trying to be sexy. I feel as long as I don't sit here and M  porn I am doing ok.

 

[Eidan]

it s up to you man, I just feel that at least in the beginning of the reboot, it might be a good idea to kill everything which is voyeurisme related. I guess it s like masturbation, once you are cured, once you are out of the woods, there s no problem to do so, but in the beginning, i would rather starve my brain from any artificial stimulation so when the real deal takes place, the proper brain pathways are going to light up like a christmas tree

 

[Brooklyn Jerry]

  I don't look at them as sex objects , just appreciate their beauty. I for sure don't leer.  I been an auto mechanic for almost 50 years. I retired a few years ago. I always thought I would a project car to work on. I have in my career worked on plenty of cars that would now be considered classic. But truth be told I have no desire to do that any longer. I help,a few friends with there cars, but I would,rather look at the cars in a show, no need to own one.

 

[Username]

Thinking of a big flashing stop sign is actually even used as a piece of advice for OCD patients and the likes. It's definitely a good start.
Personally though, I still have a hard time to refrain from checking out women wherever I go. I am abroad for a couple of months right now, and it's seductively dressed 18-year-olds all over the place since university terms are about to begin. It poses quite a challenge to me but I promise myself each day that I will - at least - not ogle at every single one. Quite difficult to do so. But if I can avoid porn during these times of constant visual stimuli, I'm rather certain to be successful in the long run.

 

[Jijnyasu]

lol I like it. Going to give it a try.

 

[Berens]

What i discovered today, because of letting myself having sexual fantasy, was begin to use a stopwatch on my phone. I just say, since now i dont let myself think about sex and i start stopwatch. When i think about sex i reset my stopwatch. Sonething like day counter for PMO but for smaller scale.

 

[ClayJack93]

I feel as long as I don't sit here and M  porn I am doing ok.

Right on the money. I'd go a step further and say not M to anything on a computer.