I have a problem with not having sex with women!
Yeah that sentence to some of you probably raises a lot of questions. "This is a PMO/No-Fap forum. Whachu mean you have a problem not having sex with women. You just solved your no-fap problem right?" Wrong! I hope there is someone else out there like me who understands where I'm coming from. But I see a lot more people on the forum struggling to connect with the world. That unfortunately is not my problem. I connect just fine. I don't alienate the world. In fact I do more than connect. I fuck the world. Well beautiful woman in this world at least. And therein lies my problem. I struggle to sustain a healthy relationship with a girl because I'm to busy thinking about how I want to get into her pants. This is very frustrating because I see too many other guys striking casual conversations and I see no non-verbal intentions of sex. I WANT THAT. I want a hot FRIEND and not some fuck buddy or fuck it up and turn it into a one night stand because it gets awkward after that.
Now I see all these remedies to workout at the gym or read a book. Essentially to do something to preoccupy the brain. The problem is I will easily have sex with a woman and I find myself chasing tail instead. I have real live porn interactions. Now in my efforts to suppress these drives I end up defaulting to porn which has been my influential factor. In fact if I get porn off the mind I will restore my existing relationships and develop healthier relationships in the future. As of yet though the conventional methods used by most people on this forum do not seem to work. It seems like I have to cut myself off of woman PERIOD for 90 days in order to restore my brain.
If someone is experiencing something similar please chime in. Maybe I missed a thread where someone is having a similar issue as me.
Yeah that sentence to some of you probably raises a lot of questions. "This is a PMO/No-Fap forum. Whachu mean you have a problem not having sex with women. You just solved your no-fap problem right?" Wrong! I hope there is someone else out there like me who understands where I'm coming from. But I see a lot more people on the forum struggling to connect with the world. That unfortunately is not my problem. I connect just fine. I don't alienate the world. In fact I do more than connect. I fuck the world. Well beautiful woman in this world at least. And therein lies my problem. I struggle to sustain a healthy relationship with a girl because I'm to busy thinking about how I want to get into her pants. This is very frustrating because I see too many other guys striking casual conversations and I see no non-verbal intentions of sex. I WANT THAT. I want a hot FRIEND and not some fuck buddy or fuck it up and turn it into a one night stand because it gets awkward after that.
Now I see all these remedies to workout at the gym or read a book. Essentially to do something to preoccupy the brain. The problem is I will easily have sex with a woman and I find myself chasing tail instead. I have real live porn interactions. Now in my efforts to suppress these drives I end up defaulting to porn which has been my influential factor. In fact if I get porn off the mind I will restore my existing relationships and develop healthier relationships in the future. As of yet though the conventional methods used by most people on this forum do not seem to work. It seems like I have to cut myself off of woman PERIOD for 90 days in order to restore my brain.
If someone is experiencing something similar please chime in. Maybe I missed a thread where someone is having a similar issue as me.