Mikel
Active Member
Good Morning everyone.
I've just got to work so still feeling a little hazy and wanted to put this off until a bit later. However, being a serial procrastinator (which I am trying to change) I thought, just start it now!
Day 1 to 10
Feel a bit up and down with my emotions, especially this week. I remember from my last (and longest) streak of 26 days that this is how I felt last time. Guessing it's down to the withdrawals from porn use. Although my motivation is low, I'm still forcing myself to do positive things throughout the day. These include: Going for a run around lunchtime, gym in the evening and attending my martial arts class on the nights it's on. Also, little bits of practice and training throughout the day. I really felt odd at my class last night, being around people helped but truthfully, I didn't feel that sociable. Just forced myself to be.
I'm actually fearful of relapsing again. Or, as I say it now, starting over again. I say this as I'm thinking beyond the relapse. I don't want to have to go through the withdrawals again and if I do look at porn and masturbate, I know it will take me a while to get back on the road to recovery again. My last streak of 26 days ended the first week of July and it's only now I've been able to get back on it properly again.
I've had enough of porn yet I still love it. To have that feeling where I want to stop, can't stop and don't want to stop all going on simultaneously really messes up my mind. When I was doing some furious edging a few weeks back, I realised how I was still immensly turned on whilst watching a particular video. That addictive beast inside of me telling me that I still want and love this, yet the humane, positive side of me, (which is me as a whole person) doesn't want this. I know porn has warped my mind with regards to sex and the opposite sex but I didn't know how much until fairly recently. I know the next few weeks are going to be difficult but I need to do this like my life depends on it. Because it does.
I've learned a lot about myself in my recovery from alcohol addiction and I honestly believe this is the last thing for me to conquer and get over in order for me to be totally free.
I've just got to work so still feeling a little hazy and wanted to put this off until a bit later. However, being a serial procrastinator (which I am trying to change) I thought, just start it now!
Day 1 to 10
Feel a bit up and down with my emotions, especially this week. I remember from my last (and longest) streak of 26 days that this is how I felt last time. Guessing it's down to the withdrawals from porn use. Although my motivation is low, I'm still forcing myself to do positive things throughout the day. These include: Going for a run around lunchtime, gym in the evening and attending my martial arts class on the nights it's on. Also, little bits of practice and training throughout the day. I really felt odd at my class last night, being around people helped but truthfully, I didn't feel that sociable. Just forced myself to be.
I'm actually fearful of relapsing again. Or, as I say it now, starting over again. I say this as I'm thinking beyond the relapse. I don't want to have to go through the withdrawals again and if I do look at porn and masturbate, I know it will take me a while to get back on the road to recovery again. My last streak of 26 days ended the first week of July and it's only now I've been able to get back on it properly again.
I've had enough of porn yet I still love it. To have that feeling where I want to stop, can't stop and don't want to stop all going on simultaneously really messes up my mind. When I was doing some furious edging a few weeks back, I realised how I was still immensly turned on whilst watching a particular video. That addictive beast inside of me telling me that I still want and love this, yet the humane, positive side of me, (which is me as a whole person) doesn't want this. I know porn has warped my mind with regards to sex and the opposite sex but I didn't know how much until fairly recently. I know the next few weeks are going to be difficult but I need to do this like my life depends on it. Because it does.
I've learned a lot about myself in my recovery from alcohol addiction and I honestly believe this is the last thing for me to conquer and get over in order for me to be totally free.