positive_beginning
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I will be turning 29 this november, so am old enough to take control of my life.And, control of my life will come from controlling my habits.And controlling my habits will come from controlling my actions.And controlling controlling my actions means controlling my thoughts.So, its a cycle which begins from my thoughts.And this is what i have to master over.
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A bit about my past :
The corruption and pollution in mind started around the age of 13-14.I used to MO almost everyday, I can reminisce, more than twice .P was occasional,sometimes as we dint had internet at home.Life had changed.I had been more like suffering from social anxiety.I got twtiching in the eyes, my heart running faster, my growth around the bones stopped.I visited doctor but none of them could point out the reason.
But then around the age of 20 , I lost the size and power under.I used to have excess of night emissions.
I tried for natural medicines with naturalist doctors whom I can't afford that time.So, I was doomed and accepted life that way.I would occasionaly MO though.
4 years back , though I had got a laptop with internet connection which brought the filthy p into my life almost daily. I PMO to TV programme scenes or movie scenes , not much of nudity. Don't have an account with any p sites.There are streaks like 30/40 days no PMO but then it comes back.
I had came across this thing that P affect ED and penile health, a year or so back.But then I just read and made no conscious effort to do anything, I had actually accepted my life is doomed and am beyond repair.
Only Hope is God curing me. I hoped may be eating some natural medicines will cure me.
Few weeks back somehow i again got that article and read the same thing and this time I don't know why I made a resolve to start the journey here as to kick of this filth from my life.
I been a bit shy all my life ,and morever in our country and religion , it is a taboo to have gf or sex before marriage.So, I never had any physical touch with any woman, leave alone relationship.
I know I have lost :
1. Degree from one of the top ranked college
2. Become detached with family, relatives, friends
3.My brain is not the same
4.My left Eyes used to pain
5.My left part of the brain at the back pains
6.I am still not financially stable
7.I rejected many marriage proposals for fear I won't be able to erect ..
8.I wasted my heart , i am leading a double life of a hypocrite .I am tired of this stuff. All the people think I am so good guy while I am filthy in my heart
9.I wasted countless hours -which will never come back - which was the
reason I lost many many things
10.P is the reason for my parents not living a good life, and my siblings are struggling
11. I used to be the pride of my family and parents, I put every one down
12.I do have Social anxiety which pulls me from progressing
13.I have lost many opportunities in life due to this depression and filthy habit
14....and the list is endless
I can't afford to live in denial, I can't afford to slip up , For the sake of my parents, my brother
my family , my community - but most of all for myself..I was not sent by God to this Earth for fapping , I
have been given a purpose , a clear goal which I keep forgetting.I can die any moment, what legacy will I leave
behind....?
I know , I only PMO at late night. When everyone is sleep and I go mindless browsing on my laptop
So, the most effective solution would be :
1. Sleep early -
2.Mindless browsing = Facebook ,most of the time.
3. Monitoring my internet time, will jounral it .
_________________________________________________________________________________________________
A bit about my past :
The corruption and pollution in mind started around the age of 13-14.I used to MO almost everyday, I can reminisce, more than twice .P was occasional,sometimes as we dint had internet at home.Life had changed.I had been more like suffering from social anxiety.I got twtiching in the eyes, my heart running faster, my growth around the bones stopped.I visited doctor but none of them could point out the reason.
But then around the age of 20 , I lost the size and power under.I used to have excess of night emissions.
I tried for natural medicines with naturalist doctors whom I can't afford that time.So, I was doomed and accepted life that way.I would occasionaly MO though.
4 years back , though I had got a laptop with internet connection which brought the filthy p into my life almost daily. I PMO to TV programme scenes or movie scenes , not much of nudity. Don't have an account with any p sites.There are streaks like 30/40 days no PMO but then it comes back.
I had came across this thing that P affect ED and penile health, a year or so back.But then I just read and made no conscious effort to do anything, I had actually accepted my life is doomed and am beyond repair.
Only Hope is God curing me. I hoped may be eating some natural medicines will cure me.
Few weeks back somehow i again got that article and read the same thing and this time I don't know why I made a resolve to start the journey here as to kick of this filth from my life.
I been a bit shy all my life ,and morever in our country and religion , it is a taboo to have gf or sex before marriage.So, I never had any physical touch with any woman, leave alone relationship.
I know I have lost :
1. Degree from one of the top ranked college
2. Become detached with family, relatives, friends
3.My brain is not the same
4.My left Eyes used to pain
5.My left part of the brain at the back pains
6.I am still not financially stable
7.I rejected many marriage proposals for fear I won't be able to erect ..
8.I wasted my heart , i am leading a double life of a hypocrite .I am tired of this stuff. All the people think I am so good guy while I am filthy in my heart
9.I wasted countless hours -which will never come back - which was the
reason I lost many many things
10.P is the reason for my parents not living a good life, and my siblings are struggling
11. I used to be the pride of my family and parents, I put every one down
12.I do have Social anxiety which pulls me from progressing
13.I have lost many opportunities in life due to this depression and filthy habit
14....and the list is endless
I can't afford to live in denial, I can't afford to slip up , For the sake of my parents, my brother
my family , my community - but most of all for myself..I was not sent by God to this Earth for fapping , I
have been given a purpose , a clear goal which I keep forgetting.I can die any moment, what legacy will I leave
behind....?
I know , I only PMO at late night. When everyone is sleep and I go mindless browsing on my laptop
So, the most effective solution would be :
1. Sleep early -
2.Mindless browsing = Facebook ,most of the time.
3. Monitoring my internet time, will jounral it .