Hi All,
My name is Ty and I am a 29 year old living in Massachusetts. I learned about Reboot Nation today while listening to Gabe Deem on the podcast Consider Before Consuming.
My struggle began when I was 10 so it is baffling that porn has been a dark part of my life for 2/3 of my life. I have had successful relationships in the past but porn was always been my secret during all of them. My last relationship ended 4 years ago and these past 9 months of spending time indoors alone away from my closest friends has highlighted my desire for a relationship and a life companion. But porn is a major part of myself that I know can not be a part of a healthy life or any successful future relationships.
One trigger for me since March has been Instagram. I find that I will spend multiple hours scrolling and often lead to the web where I search for more explicit material. Working from home while my roommates are out of the house has hurt my control of urges as well. I am very social and friendly with them so the ability to hang out with them has been a key resource in beating back "The Urge". Additionally, working out and spending time outside has been key to success but too often I find myself fantasizing about what I will search for when I get home.
I am currently 1 month off Instagram! but the urges still come on and I have failed in staying away from porn most days this past month. I feel extremely grateful for finding this site on December 1 as my goal is to be porn free going into the new year (so far so good!).
Is anyone else prepping a December streak? Also, have others had victory in using abstinence from another media as a stepping block to success towards quitting porn? I look forward to interacting and learning about everyone's work towards a healthier and more meaningful life.
Kindly,
Ty
My name is Ty and I am a 29 year old living in Massachusetts. I learned about Reboot Nation today while listening to Gabe Deem on the podcast Consider Before Consuming.
My struggle began when I was 10 so it is baffling that porn has been a dark part of my life for 2/3 of my life. I have had successful relationships in the past but porn was always been my secret during all of them. My last relationship ended 4 years ago and these past 9 months of spending time indoors alone away from my closest friends has highlighted my desire for a relationship and a life companion. But porn is a major part of myself that I know can not be a part of a healthy life or any successful future relationships.
One trigger for me since March has been Instagram. I find that I will spend multiple hours scrolling and often lead to the web where I search for more explicit material. Working from home while my roommates are out of the house has hurt my control of urges as well. I am very social and friendly with them so the ability to hang out with them has been a key resource in beating back "The Urge". Additionally, working out and spending time outside has been key to success but too often I find myself fantasizing about what I will search for when I get home.
I am currently 1 month off Instagram! but the urges still come on and I have failed in staying away from porn most days this past month. I feel extremely grateful for finding this site on December 1 as my goal is to be porn free going into the new year (so far so good!).
Is anyone else prepping a December streak? Also, have others had victory in using abstinence from another media as a stepping block to success towards quitting porn? I look forward to interacting and learning about everyone's work towards a healthier and more meaningful life.
Kindly,
Ty