So I've been looking for this specific issue I've noticed about myself since 2015 but I dont see much of it online. Aside from social anxiety, no feelings of wanting to meet girls or make friends or be around family, feeling dead inside. I have this annoying problem with feeling extremely shy and embarrassed when someone tries to joke around with me or have a moment of humor with me. Especially while having eye contact. I cant laugh or smile without feeling and looking awkward. I instantly notice the other person feeling and looking awkward because of how I look when i laugh or smile. It feels fake as fuck and i know it looks terrible.
Yes I've pmo'd for a long ass time, I'm 25. Been at this since 12 maybe, but never noticed change like this up until 2015. Since 2015 to like 2020, I started watching really weird, bad shit that made me feel even worse. I was always scared and nervous to get caught watching the porn I was looking at. And now I feel like I'm in a deeper hole I need to get out of. I've tried quitting pmo since 2018 I believe and relapsed alot.
For the 1st time in my life, I've managed to stay away from porn & masturbating for about 4 or 5 weeks, a month or so. It's the longest I've ever lasted. I've had 3 wet dreams, I've been journaling everyday, working out every day. I know I have a long way to go. I just really hope killing this addictiom gives me the power to fix my life again. I'm so desperate to feel NORMAL. I just want to feel happy around people and want to feel good socializing. To feel happy around my family. I know I want to be successful and make more money as well but its impossible when I cant even feel normal around PEOPLE. If anyone else has that weird issue, message me.